Trying to be a good man :ladies I need yall help

[Detroit Red]

So I'm married.. Been married for two years.. We've had hard times but we always make it through and we love each other but..
I have a problem at work..
There's this new girl..
And she keep flirting with me.. I'm not gonna lie she bad
I told her I was married all she said was......"okay"
And gave me the

How can I get this girl off my back before I make a mistake brehettes?

Should I tell my wife ?

 

[bcrusaderw]

The fukk? Only 2 years in, and you're already tempted to stray? Ugh.

 

[Detroit Red]

The fukk? Only 2 years in, and you're already tempted to stray? Ugh.

Tempted yes..going to ...no..I don't think so lol

 

[Ello_Vee]

There will be plenty more like her. Sounds like she is doing nothing but flirting. Don't entertain it.

Maybe you should be asking the men in successful marriages how they handle it. I can't think of what would work aside from putting her on defense. "Wonder if your bf/husband has women who come on to him at work like this." But that could backfire.
Really, all I can think is shut it down like a man who respects himself, his position, his wife, and family. The fact you are even entertaining the idea that you could "make a mistake" means you are already putting your life, health, wife, family, job, career, home, self-respect, reputation and future at risk. Not worth it.

 

[Detroit Red]

There will be plenty more like her. Sounds like she is doing nothing but flirting. Don't entertain it.

Maybe you should be asking the men in successful marriages how they handle it. I can't think of what would work aside from putting her on defense. "Wonder if your bf/husband has women who come on to him at work like this." But that could backfire.
Really, all I can think is shut it down like a man who respects himself, his position, his wife, and family. The fact you are even entertaining the idea that you could "make a mistake" means you are already putting your life, health, wife, family, job, career, home, self-respect, reputation and future at risk. Not worth it.

You're right I shouldn't even entertain it...

 

[Ello_Vee]

And what good is telling your wife? You think she should handle it for you? Handle your business!

 

[The Mad Titan]

You gotta ignore her, or straight up tell her your married and flattered by her but can't and won't entertain flirting back and forth anymore.


Since its at work you gotta be careful with how you handle it.

 

[Detroit Red]

You gotta ignore her, or straight up tell her your married and flattered by her but can't and won't entertain flirting back and forth anymore.


Since its at work you gotta be careful with how you handle it.

Yeah that's what I be trying to do just ignore her.. I do gotta be mad careful too

 

[Giselle]

If she doesn't leave you alone after you ask her to, then report her. @KlayeCreation

 

[Raava]

Ignore her, if you entertain her it just encourages her. I would report her too if she doesn't stop. Is she worth your marriage?

 

[Detroit Red]

Ignore her, if you entertain her it just encourages her. I would report her too if she doesn't stop. Is she worth your marriage?

Nah she's not..

 

[Raava]

Nah she's not..

Women like that will f up your life and move on. She is obviously not a loyal person and has a low moral compass. You could lose your marriage and job. Take your ego boost and keep it moving.

I would keep a record of me telling her to leave me alone and every time she has continued just in case she tries to turn it around on you. I don't trust hoes.

 

[September]

It's not on her to stop. It's on you to not give in and ignore it. The fact that you're married should be reason enough for you not make any 'mistakes', no matter what she does. Tell her to back off and KIM. If it gets to the point of harassment then report her because she's not respecting your work environment

 

[Rawtid]

You need to curve her and hard. Don't speak, don't flirt, don't do lunch and only deal with her if work is involved. If it gets too bad, then I personally would asked to be reassigned to another department.

 

[live it to the limit]

Don't tell your wife. If this chick doesn't stop flirting, record her ass and tell her you're going to play the recording to HR for harassment. Bet she leave you alone then