Trust in relationships in 2020

[Bossyyyyy]

To y’all in relationships, do you find it to be possible? What did it take to get to that point?

personally i can only genuinely trust a few people, but for whatever reason my significant other is not fully one of them. it’s not because of anything she did or anything like that but I just can’t fully wrap my head around that idea

 

[BaldingSoHard]

For me, it's like... if someone wants to cheat on you they're gonna do it. No amount of stressing over it is gonna change that. I just look at it like if she wants to fukk this up for herself then that's on her. My life is gonna be good with our without her .

 

[Hungerpain]

In the Back of your head you know shes a hoe,influenced by hoe shyt or susceptible to hoe activity.

Dont worry you're not crazy this is America where those statements have a 98% of being true.
Difference between you and alot of other brehs in relationships is they dont listen to that voice in they head(and end up taking L's) or they just dont care.

If you the relationship type and not comfortable with wifing hoes I'd advise you look at other cultures for something long term.

 

[DreadBrown]

I trust people to be who they are

If I know you’re a liar I cant be mad when you lie to me

 

[Pseudonym]

Too much hassle to not trust like checking social media, phone, whereabouts. I'm trying to live a stress free life.

Like a previous poster said, if someone wants to cheat, they will find a way to do it. If you find out they are, peacefully part ways and they'll eventually know they fukked up. Some men know they're the side nikka so when she goes running to him, most likely the side nikka gonna because he already know how she is.

 

[Music Fiend]

If you're experienced with women and are pushing to be better everyday, keeping up with self and your own social life, theres a comfort in knowing if she goes, shyt will be more or less the same.

Its also easier to trust someone who is very trustworthy. Because the moment something switches and does feel right, you'll know

 

[the bossman]

To y’all in relationships, do you find it to be possible? What did it take to get to that point?

personally i can only genuinely trust a few people, but for whatever reason my significant other is not fully one of them. it’s not because of anything she did or anything like that but I just can’t fully wrap my head around that idea

You might have experienced some trauma you need to deal with. Get some therapy.

There are healthy relationships that exist between people who trust each other. What would be the point of being in a relationship with someone you don't trust. It's pointless

 

[blockburna420]

I don't even think about the cheating shyt , i can't fukk with a bytch that share the same vices as me

Yea i can trust you, i can also leave you...

 

[DropTopDoc]

For me, it's like... if someone wants to cheat on you they're gonna do it. No amount of stressing over it is gonna change that. I just look at it like if she wants to fukk this up for herself then that's on her. My life is gonna be good with our without her .

this, i probably shouldn’t think like this, but i assume most women are, but if she wants to, there is nothing i can do, women have it made when it comes to cheating, so honestly you will never find out unless she reckless or sloppy, so why stress

 

[Ciggavelli]

I’m pretty sure that if you trust somebody 100% you’re setting yourself up for failure.

The ride or die type are only found in movies

 

[Apollo Creed]

For me, it's like... if someone wants to cheat on you they're gonna do it. No amount of stressing over it is gonna change that. I just look at it like if she wants to fukk this up for herself then that's on her. My life is gonna be good with our without her .

Pretty much this. Insecurity will kill you, if you see the writing is on the wall or you sense something (more so the person is exhibiting new behaviors that you do not support and are suspect) cut your losses. Better to be wrong than hurting your mind always wondering if someone is cheating or not.

 

[Abstract83]

I feel the same way. I definately need to seek therapy. Even though I saw one for a year. I'm the guy that has done dirt for yrs. And I have insecurity issues. I dont trust any woman. No matter what she says. Or how sincere she may come off.

Being on this board seeing thread after thread with broken relationships. And constantly seeing women have a complete disregard for men kinda clouds my judgement. All over the media just seeing thots all over the place makes me forget what a true woman (besides my own family/friends) is suppose to be.

Im trying not to think like that but I can't help it.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

My dad told me some years ago that he don't fully trust any woman, not even my mother.

He didn't go any further than that, but I took from that convo that 100% trust is not something that you want to give to any woman. You just make sure that the one you're in a relationship with, is more trustworthy than the rest of them.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

this, i probably shouldn’t think like this, but i assume most women are, but if she wants to, there is nothing i can do, women have it made when it comes to cheating, so honestly you will never find out unless she reckless or sloppy, so why stress

that’s the thing when it comes to me trusting someone else, you can’t force them to or not to do anything. then you’re saying why stress? im gonna be stressed because there’s a chance im being made into a fool, that this person is lying to me. i can’t just accept my girl is smashing other ppl on the side, and ill genuinely never know if that’s a characteristic found in most women, but let the net tell it, and it is. if she’s already with others why be with just her?

 

[Bossyyyyy]

I feel the same way. I definately need to seek therapy. Even though I saw one for a year. I'm the guy that has done dirt for yrs. And I have insecurity issues. I dont trust any woman. No matter what she says. Or how sincere she may come off.

Being on this board seeing thread after thread with broken relationships. And constantly seeing women have a complete disregard for men kinda clouds my judgement. All over the media just seeing thots all over the place makes me forget what a true woman (besides my own family/friends) is suppose to be.

Im trying not to think like that but I can't help it.

yeah man my judgement is very clouded, from reading all the gmb posts to watching people like ams to witnessing thottery all around me both online and in person, my view on relationships is kinda messed up.

a relationship is a hell of a predicament I put myself in