Tips on dealing with rejection

[Spectre]

And how did u deal with it?

Read posts about being tough on gardening tools. I think it comes from rejection. Everyone wants to be loved. No one wants to be rejected. #tinder.
Help brehs who are afraid of rejection know it's not that bad

 

[PeridotPuss]

in

 

[Spectre]

....welp that was fun. I shoulda said pawg in the intro damn. Bless't told me that too. I'll get better next time.

 

[Music Fiend]

Oddly enough I never really get the respect enough to get major rejection from women I'm seeing.

I get the silent curve a lot. Where I'll try to link up and they would either agree or just leave it in the air then time comes and it's no response. Then when I catch em around the town they act like it never happened.

My exes tho, rejected with 0 fux when it's done

 

[Spectre]

Oddly enough I never really get the respect enough to get major rejection from women I'm seeing.

I get the silent curve a lot. Where I'll try to link up and they would either agree or just leave it in the air then time comes and it's no response. Then when I catch em around the town they act like it never happened.

My exes tho, rejected with 0 fux when it's done

A lot of women in our generation can be flaky. But if u act like the life of the party guess who's getting texts now?
Flaky women like popular guys. They're the type to have 3 things in rotation cuz of FOMO

 

[blockburna420]

y'all dudes need to stop dwelling on shyt.

 

[DrX]

Rejection is unpreventable.... Even rich and famous dudes get curved

If u think women rejection hurt just wait until u apply for 50 jobs and get 3 interviews and get rejected by all 3...when u have bills coming in

That's when the hurt comes

 

[Soon]

1. Don't compromise.
2. Go after women who have respect and self-respect
3. Don't go after anyone who is not not feeling you

Dudes try to wife up anything these days. I don't really follow my rule 100% of the time, but that's because I don't have intimacy issues.

 

[Blackout]

Have a friend with benefits.

 

[Spectre]

y'all dudes need to stop dwelling on shyt.

I made this thread cuz yall won't stop
brb reads
hoh, why women can't get it together, women are so confusing, why she a thot, thots gonna thot, thought she was good...still a thot, oh that nice girl...yeah prolly had a train on her.....they're all gardening tools.....marriage? what? but they're thots...
u can't be asking out that many women n still come to those conclusions.....so perhaps it's from rejection or even worse...fear of rejection

it's time we really got to the heart of it

 

[ba'al]

I love how everybody on the coli is suddenly a relationship expert these days.

 

[Spectre]

Rejection is unpreventable.... Even rich and famous dudes get curved

If u think women rejection hurt just wait until u apply for 50 jobs and get 3 interviews and get rejected by all 3...when u have bills coming in

That's when the hurt comes

daaaayum but that's real tho

 

[Music Fiend]

A lot of women in our generation can be flaky. But if u act like the life of the party guess who's getting texts now?
Flaky women like popular guys. They're the type to have 3 things in rotation cuz of FOMO

Couldn't be truer. But idk I still take it as rejection. Although they never said they weren't down.

Much can be inferred by that it never happened, especially when u don't sweat em.

It's just weird cuz I'm not sure why they wouldn't just come clean and say nah u feel me? it's rarely the top tier women either.

1st rd draft picks let me know off jump if it ain't happening. These regular women tho. Smh

 

[Chef]

Don't dwell on it, don't take it personal or grow animosity for the person. There's over 6 billion people on Earth, you can't lose sleep over one.

 

[Spectre]

1. Don't compromise.
2. Go after women who have respect and self-respect
3. Don't go after anyone who is not not feeling you

Dudes try to wife up anything these days. I don't really follow my rule 100% of the time, but that's because I don't have intimacy issues.