Nah I'm Chinese and height is a big deal over there. Even I'm short compared to the dudes in Beijing and Shanghai nowadays. Could I get a landbeast in China? Sure, but I don't know if I'm willing to. Maybe it's my pride. I worked hard in school, got a good job and make good money. Whatever, life ain't fair. I just got to be at peace with it.
You do got to be at peace with it...
But I got you dawg, I'm gonna coach you on this shyt.
First of all, you secretly already winning because you got your shyt together. The reason why most females tend to go with taller dudes is because there's this belief that the bigger you are the more you can protect/provide for them better. And thats DEFINITELY not always the case.
You got to be confident in yourself and your abilities. From what you posted, you're already good in the mind and wallet
Now it's time to hit the gym, put some weight on your bones. You can't be really short and out of shape dawg, trust me it's not a good look. Don't do it for females though, do it for yourself.
Second get yourself in a self defense class like BJJ or boxing or something. I say this because no matter what, you got to learn to handle yours to a certain degree so people won't assume that because you're short that you're also
. You chinese, so I would assume you've done some form of Martial Arts before, get back into it, you could meet a chick there who is impressed by your style...
In fact, that can go into anything really. Find a hobby. I like working with kids and I've seen females who would act
towards me turn into
over that alone. But I don't date single mothers so
... (just my preference)
There's other things you could do to make yourself more attractive to the average female these days like get tats, switch your style up, etc. but honestly, just being happy with yourself and having fun is what usually worked for me. Nothing you can do about your height and I've seen plenty of short dudes that just appear to not give a fukk and that works for them. Having personality helps too, don't put these females on pedestals. Most of them don't have personality neither