Me (42) and my wife (38) have been in a dead bedroom for the past 3 years, she refuses to go to counceling or to even talk about it and I'm at my witts end. Recently a younger man started at her job and she was tasked with training him, I had no problem with this because she told me about it which I appreciated. On Friday after work my wifes car wouldnt start and I wasn't able to get to her because I was on the road (truck driver), so this new guy gave her a ride home, but it wasn't our home it was his. My wife called me at 6pm and told me what happened and then she told me something that I'm still not sure about, she said when they got to his house that his car broke down in his drive way and that she would be spending the night at his house since I would be on the road all night. I picked her up the next day (saturday) and she was walking like she had an issue with her foot, it looked weird. I asked her why she was walking like that and she said because she sprained her ankle (that was a lie). Later that night I wanted to make love, she reluctantly let me (missionary me on top) but she was so sore that I really couldnt do anything. She said she is cramping because of her period. This has me thinking, should I trust that nothing happened?
