The extreme loose stomach skin after birth doesn't stay that way. Even if there is some loose skin a year or so after lots of cardio exercise, a lot of women just have surgery to cut it off.
Despite what he says, I'm sure my husband was like
after watching the birth of his children and
during the first week after birth when my stomach looked like jello. But with exclusive breast feeding and working out, things went right back to normal each time. Only thing that never went down were my hips and he doesn't complain about that.
It's all a part of being a woman who goes through pregnancy and birth. Which is more of a reason I don't understand women who have kids for multiple men who won't marry them. Couldn't be me.