When there's no pressure and you're both are working to impress and keep the other happy.You're enjoying her company and the romance and wishing things could stay this way forever, but for some reasons people feel that progress is always better than maintaining. Especially women when it come to relationships. But it's not true. Society dictates to women that a man must commit. So after dating, no matter how great things are going, the pressure to commit usually comes in the form of the question
"what are were doing? just dating or working towards being together?"
Men are so simple, I think we subconsciously hate to risking things when there are going well and we're in a very comfortable situation. A smart man asking himself and/or the woman:
"So what's going to change when we commit? What will get better?"
Guarantee you, this question will stomp her unless she's being holding back. Usually if you break it down, not much is going to benefit to the man. Usually the only thing that changes is she's going to demand more and ask more questions. Just more constraints.
Regardless if you choose to commit or not, ya'll best days are usually behind you by the time this convo arrives. My solution is for the woman to chill out and enjoy the brand new feeling for as long as she can. Sooner or later, the guy will not be able to do w/o her and wife it. Her trying to force the man to commit usually causes more problems.
"what are were doing? just dating or working towards being together?"
Men are so simple, I think we subconsciously hate to risking things when there are going well and we're in a very comfortable situation. A smart man asking himself and/or the woman:
"So what's going to change when we commit? What will get better?"
Guarantee you, this question will stomp her unless she's being holding back. Usually if you break it down, not much is going to benefit to the man. Usually the only thing that changes is she's going to demand more and ask more questions. Just more constraints.
Regardless if you choose to commit or not, ya'll best days are usually behind you by the time this convo arrives. My solution is for the woman to chill out and enjoy the brand new feeling for as long as she can. Sooner or later, the guy will not be able to do w/o her and wife it. Her trying to force the man to commit usually causes more problems.
