think about it for a second....during the first trimester the one is most at risk of losing her baby which is why most women dont tell anyone anything after the first timester. Most of the time when you first meet a new woman and are in the first couple of months of dating you tell anyone because you dont want to be seeing someone on a wednesday and then by friday you are no longer seeing them, yet you told your friends or coworkers. The 1st trimester and first couple of months of dating is also setting the foundation for how things can possible go as more time passes. You are excited about the new idea of meeting and dating someone new, but also no that it can quickly be gone just the same with an early pregnancy. There are several other examples but just think about the many similarities. There is like a huge unknown with both