PoorAndDangerous
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My granny was literally perfect, like straight out of a movie. It definitely hurt. I’ve had a few dreams where I talk to her again and ask what death is like, never get an answer. She forgot most of the female family, but somehow never forgot me, I still remember whispering in her ear that I love her the night she passed, the nurses said that she seemed to react and hear deeper male voices. Death is hard, but where they are there’s no suffering and I can find peace in that.yeah, man. I was in denial for the longest because I just KNEW my granddad was okay. During Obama's 1st term, it was one of the greatest feelings to call my granddad as a grown man and discuss politics with him.
We would talk about Obama, and about Kwame Kilpatrick (he voted for Kwame twice )
but we would have riveting discussions about politics, man. And he was sharp, sharp.
Then when he took that fall, for the first week or so, he was good. Then the decline happened fast.
He lived for several more years later, but he was just a shell of himself. It broke my heart because we were so close.
It really made me proud some years later at his funeral, when my dad spoke, he mentioned that him and my granddad had talked (before he got sick) and my granddad told him how proud he was of me, and how much he enjoyed our debates.
pivoting to a slightly less depressing note, there is an incredible episode in the first season of that Castle Rock show where Sissy Spacek has dementia but it’s used as almost a time travel plot device, not to minimalize the disease but it was done incredibly well. Because for a lot of dementia patients it is like that, sometimes they think they’re back in time in a specific moment etc.
There’s also a fascinating documentary on YouTube about the worst case of amnesia known to medical science. This guy has a memory span between of about 7 seconds to a minute.