I was in front of the campus, under the overhang, waiting for the 9 to come so I could go home, and it was raining hard. I sipped on my Arizona and stared at the rain drops on the gray pavement, the tall downtown buildings, the busy bodies in their cars whizzing past me. Dade County has 2.5 million people, and 2.5 million stories to tell. I had Noreaga-I Love My Life in my earphones, and I vividly listened to Carl Thomas on the hook....
"I love my life,
Sold drugs my life,
It's my whole life
I sacrificed.........."
Man, stats make us look bad than we actually are. I saw a stat that 48% of black men are unemployed in Miami-Dade County. I'm an adult now (19 years old) and unemployed, but that doesn't mean anything. My mom wants me to focus on school, so now she gives me $200 a week to not work. I saw a stat that 77% of black women have children out of wedlock, but that doesn't tell the whole story. My brother and his girlfriend have a 2 year old son, and she's pregnant with twin daughters. To add to that, they own a nice home in a tony locale, my brother has an extremely lucrative job in the family business, and they are engaged to marry. But all they see is 77% out of wedlock. Black women have high obesity/overweight rates. The obesity stat I can't really argue, but the overweight stat is BS, because it is documented that black women carry more muscle mass than other races of women, carry LESS visceral (belly) fat than other races of women, and these stats are accrued via the fraudulent ass BMI system.
That's bullshyt. We (black people) need to stop taking these things to heart because they make us worry excessively for no reason, when these things should be looked at on a case by case basis. Of course, we should be building finances & strong black family units together, but there's no cut and dry solution to get there. I'm remaining abstinent until marriage, cuz I'm a devout Christian, I think it's more special & romantic, and I don't want to wear condoms, but I hate how these stats can mess with our self-esteem sometimes.
"I love my life,
Sold drugs my life,
It's my whole life
I sacrificed.........."
Man, stats make us look bad than we actually are. I saw a stat that 48% of black men are unemployed in Miami-Dade County. I'm an adult now (19 years old) and unemployed, but that doesn't mean anything. My mom wants me to focus on school, so now she gives me $200 a week to not work. I saw a stat that 77% of black women have children out of wedlock, but that doesn't tell the whole story. My brother and his girlfriend have a 2 year old son, and she's pregnant with twin daughters. To add to that, they own a nice home in a tony locale, my brother has an extremely lucrative job in the family business, and they are engaged to marry. But all they see is 77% out of wedlock. Black women have high obesity/overweight rates. The obesity stat I can't really argue, but the overweight stat is BS, because it is documented that black women carry more muscle mass than other races of women, carry LESS visceral (belly) fat than other races of women, and these stats are accrued via the fraudulent ass BMI system.
That's bullshyt. We (black people) need to stop taking these things to heart because they make us worry excessively for no reason, when these things should be looked at on a case by case basis. Of course, we should be building finances & strong black family units together, but there's no cut and dry solution to get there. I'm remaining abstinent until marriage, cuz I'm a devout Christian, I think it's more special & romantic, and I don't want to wear condoms, but I hate how these stats can mess with our self-esteem sometimes.