Spinny: Your ex calls or text you...do you tell your s/o

[Mr210]

I say no unless they keep bothering you....if they hit you up asking to see you or whatever and you say leave me alone and they drop it....I wouldnt tell my s/o but I know some people look at that as lying my omission

 

[Diondon]

If she handle it like she's supposed to I won't have no problems

 

[Swiggy]

Depends on what she wants. We can be civil, but if she puttin out a feeler or whatever, she can keep it moving, and I'd still say something to s/o.

 

[Mr210]

If she handle it like she's supposed to I won't have no problems

ok so what about you, if your ex contacts you do you automatically tell your woman

 

[twan83]

no cuz what could my ex possibly tell me too keep me on the phone or text her back not a damn thing its a mute point in my book

and if she threw the p*ssy at me i be like and proceed too block her number that wont work on me she is an ex for a reason

 

[Diondon]

ok so what about you, if your ex contacts you do you automatically tell your woman

Yeah I 'll probably mention it in passing, like guess who hit me up today?

 

[Fur Elise]

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't. Depends on what they want. They hit me up so often, I feel like I'd be letting my s/o know something every week.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Probably. I have nothing to hide.

 

[Mr210]

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't. Depends on what they want. They hit me up so often, I feel like I'd be letting my s/o know something every week.

damn might be time for you to block those numbers

 

[BrothaZay]

Niggga no, ima grown ass man

 

[JahBuhLun]

If you dont tell your s/o that might be an indication that you are still interested in the ex.
But, your s/o could be the jealous, over reacting type and will create unnecessary drama.
Or you s/o will look at you as the type to try to start shyt by bringing up the ex. The ole "you're not paying attention to me but guess you is" type of deal.
Best way to handle it is to tell the ex; "I'm in a relationship now and I don't feel comfortable being put in a situation where I would have to explain to my s/o why you are calling me."
If you have kid(s) with the ex, then it's not even an issue.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

This happens 2x a year from one ex, and once a year from another. One is married, the other is not. Both want to get back together with me. I tell wifey. We have a good laugh about it.

 

[Fur Elise]

damn might be time for you to block those numbers

I blocked the one who would text me "come over" at 1 am.

The others sometimes ask for computer advice, business advice, advice on women, etc. If they ever decide to get out of pocket, I'll block their numbers too.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

i would cuz dem niccas aint got no good reason to be calling me

 

[twan83]

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't. Depends on what they want. They hit me up so often, I feel like I'd be letting my s/o know something every week.

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