Spin: Have Black Men even attempted to talk to Nerdy Black Women?

[UpAndComing]

I see alot threads on Black men saying Black Women don't like nerdy men. I get that, you have a valid point with some women

But do you make an effort to meet nerdy Black women?

- Have you been to Museums to find them?
- Have you been to Book clubs to find them?
- Have you been to STEM conventions to find them?
- Are you tryna hit up a Barnes and Noble?
- Are you ok with women who don't really drink or smoke, or go to clubs, and rather have intellectual pursuits?

Not attacking, just curious

 

[BaggerofTea]

plenty out there

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I'm not coming at you, OP. I'm just speaking in general, but I wanna put this shyt to rest.

I specifically go for nerdy black women, fat black women, ugly black women, retarded black women... and no luck.

I and MANY guys I know have attempted to talk to nerdy black women.

I've seen the DMs and texts of many nerdy black women and they have hundreds of black men texting and being left on read.

People need to stop with the myth that black men only want IG models. If anything, we shoot too LOW. That's why dating is so hard right now.

I can make a dating profile of a nerdy overweight black woman right now and get plenty of black men instantly matching.

 

[At30wecashout]

It's a bullshyt thing to say. The only only ONLY true thing about "Nerdy" women, assuming they are truly nerdy and not just into the occasional quirky activity/hobby, is that often times you really sacrifice looks in the pursuit of that type of woman.

My girl is solid and nerdy. Happy as fukk to have her. I work with women who are the opposite of nerdy and are bad

You can find what you want in a nerdy chick but sometimes it means she is going to look like this

Than say this

That is NOT to say there is anything wrong with the first, but you end up in situations where you really have to get to know someone first because their looks aren't exactly drawing you in. Anyone who tells you a lie about all these fine sistas being flat out nerds are telling you lies (Again, truly nerdy, not women who like fortnite and Game of Thrones in a casual way).

 

[Jekyll]

Let me find one i’m attracted to and I might marry her. Its not even being a nerd. Its having interests and hobbies that aren’t superficial really.

 

[315]

I talk to Black women I'm attracted to. I don't stop think and about if she's "nerdy" or whatever the hell is going on with nikkas nowadays

 

[Finesse]

So many threads being spawned from my classic

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Being attractive takes work...hair, makeup, clothes, gym, clubs
Being successful takes work...study, work, study, play, work, work, work
choices

 

[thefloorislava]

I'm not coming at you, OP. I'm just speaking in general, but I wanna put this shyt to rest.

I specifically go for nerdy black women, fat black women, ugly black women, retarded black women... and no luck.

I and MANY guys I know have attempted to talk to nerdy black women.

I've seen the DMs and texts of many nerdy black women and they have hundreds of black men texting and being left on read.

People need to stop with the myth that black men only want IG models. If anything, we shoot too LOW. That's why dating is so hard right now.

I can make a dating profile of a nerdy overweight black woman right now and get plenty of black men instantly matching.

The thing is that women take male attention for granted. If a woman is complaining about not attracting men it is because she is having trouble dating up or across. The vast majority of black women complaining about black men online got plenty of black men killing their DM's its just not the high value ones that they can brag about. Women take it personally when they get rejected/ignored cause they aren't used to it because of said simps. So they run online and black men bash like they don't even get a glance from brehs smh.

 

[The D-List Vet]

They don't want black men, very rarely do they want black men.

 

[Ohene]

one of the dopest chicks i ever met was a nerd

chick was mad pretty, loved basketball and just a nerdy ass chick. She had a major crush on me but because she was waiting until marriage I friendzoned her. And then she got married a few years later and stopped talking to me.

 

[TEH]

I talk to Black women I'm attracted to. I don't stop and think and about if she's "nerdy" or whatever the hell is going on with nikkas nowadays

Exactly

Not sure if anyone thinks … is she nerdy or not …

That’s some HHwhiiite boy shyt …

 

[Boogie]

Nerdy black women are into cacs

 

[thefloorislava]

They don't want black men, very rarely do they want black men.

This is a Gen Z issue that you are blowing out of proportion. Most of those girl's want black men

 

[BaggerofTea]

It's a bullshyt thing to say. The only only ONLY true thing about "Nerdy" women, assuming they are truly nerdy and not just into the occasional quirky activity/hobby, is that often times you really sacrifice looks in the pursuit of that type of woman.

My girl is solid and nerdy. Happy as fukk to have her. I work with women who are the opposite of nerdy and are bad

You can find you just want you want but sometimes it means she is going to look like this



Than say this


That is NOT to say there is anything wrong with the first, but you end up in situations where you really have to get to know someone first because their looks aren't exactly drawing you in. Anyone who tells you a lie about all these fine sistas being flat out nerds are telling you lies (Again, truly nerdy, not women who like fortnite and Game of Thrones in a casual way).

the first girl is very cute and if she is in the gym shes perfectly fine.