Neither one is 'worse'. They're both underage.
And at age 16, your ass should know damn well whether you want dikk or p*ssy. You should know if you're truly hetero by that age, and to be like
the moment a grown nikka tries to get in your pants (now if he rapes you in the technical sense, as in forcing himself on you, that's different)
It ain't like it's an 8-year-old who has no idea what the adult's going to do once he shows interest. Can't nobody telly me a man 'turned out' a 16-year-old; that 16-year-old was already turned out by that time.