Peep the scenario first:
One of my close homies has been in an on/off relationship with this girl since HS. They've been in "on" mode for the past 4 years or so. Even had a kid together and were staying with each other.
Fast forward to this fall and I guess they transitioned back into that "off" mode. Things got so bad that my patna's girl moved out and back to her mom's crib. I guess this was supposed to be their "nah, this time it's really over" episode because of that, including the fact that they weren't FB friends anymore (meh, I guess this part stands for something).
Earlier this month, my homie hits me up asking for my FB login info so he can look at his ex girl's FB friend list, he mentioned trying to see his kid's "alleged father"
Turns out, the child of 3 1/2 years that he thought was his, isn't his.
He my ninja I hate it had to be him and I'm gonna support fam because mentally I know this entire situation has to be extremely damaging.
But fam won't stop logging into my shyt. Like, I could probably suspect that if someone gets the keys to your online social car, they're gonna snoop around and shyt like that, but the fact that this dude is sending out friend requests, checking my notifications, and is liking pictures & statuses has definitely removed all doubt. I don't even feel comfortable with him having my shyt no more.
In certain ways it's trivial, he likes his own status, then will go on my shyt and like the same status, or picture or some shyt, but I'm hella worried since I can't check what has been liked, or who a request has been sent to
What do I do brehs? Talk to him about it? Or just change my password? I've had some of his social networking login info before, but it was under different circumstances, and even then, I wasn't going through bruh's shyt, let alone shooting requests to people. He's sent them out to his ex's fam or close friends, but at this point, what else is there to figure out or discover? The only way to move on is to forget about it.
One of my close homies has been in an on/off relationship with this girl since HS. They've been in "on" mode for the past 4 years or so. Even had a kid together and were staying with each other.
Fast forward to this fall and I guess they transitioned back into that "off" mode. Things got so bad that my patna's girl moved out and back to her mom's crib. I guess this was supposed to be their "nah, this time it's really over" episode because of that, including the fact that they weren't FB friends anymore (meh, I guess this part stands for something).
Earlier this month, my homie hits me up asking for my FB login info so he can look at his ex girl's FB friend list, he mentioned trying to see his kid's "alleged father"
Turns out, the child of 3 1/2 years that he thought was his, isn't his.
He my ninja I hate it had to be him and I'm gonna support fam because mentally I know this entire situation has to be extremely damaging.
But fam won't stop logging into my shyt. Like, I could probably suspect that if someone gets the keys to your online social car, they're gonna snoop around and shyt like that, but the fact that this dude is sending out friend requests, checking my notifications, and is liking pictures & statuses has definitely removed all doubt. I don't even feel comfortable with him having my shyt no more.
In certain ways it's trivial, he likes his own status, then will go on my shyt and like the same status, or picture or some shyt, but I'm hella worried since I can't check what has been liked, or who a request has been sent to
What do I do brehs? Talk to him about it? Or just change my password? I've had some of his social networking login info before, but it was under different circumstances, and even then, I wasn't going through bruh's shyt, let alone shooting requests to people. He's sent them out to his ex's fam or close friends, but at this point, what else is there to figure out or discover? The only way to move on is to forget about it.
