These standards from these blk women are only applicable to blk men. When they are whyt, all they have to be is whyt, that is the flex for them, their whytness.
Worst case I ever saw was a blk woman online capping about her life with her whyt boyfriend telling the sisterhood how he was the breadwinner lied about his occupation, they break up come to find out she was financing his life and was paying for him to pass for a real estate license. She was on the low trying to glow him up so she could flex with the whyt man and got called out and exposed for it. Lol this is how far these women will go to validate their choices in men to spite blk men.