SMH at people trying to dictate someone elses wedding, especially when they arent putting in funds

[Mr210]

I personally feel that the couple should decide everything about the wedding and reception especially if they are paying for it, I could somewhat understand if parents are putting in on it that the groom/bride might want to give them some say, but very little at that

My boy is going through hell, because his fiance mother is trying to dictate where and when and who is invited for their wedding they are planning

 

[Soundbwoy]

its not too late to call it off

 

[unit321]

I personally feel that the couple should decide everything about the wedding and reception especially if they are paying for it, I could somewhat understand if parents are putting in on it that the groom/bride might want to give them some say, but very little at that

My boy is going through hell, because his fiance mother is trying to dictate where and when and who is invited for their wedding they are planning

Hmm, well the couple can decide whether they want a large, medium, or small wedding. Then, with that in mind, you have a max number of invites that can be sent. Usually, you split it 50/50. 50% groom's family, friends and relatives and 50% are for bride's family, friends and relatives. This way, the bride can let her mother decide who gets an invite, but only for the 50% of the total invites.

 

[ThumpDaddy]

He better go ahead and put his foot down now because if he don't, this is just the start of some shyt he don't want to get into.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Yea, ya boy bytchmade yo, he need to put his future mother-inlaw in her place. He starting off wrong from the get go and if not curbed now its gonna get worst. These women nowadays do things to emasculate men without knowing they doing it