Single moms go in on woman for not hating a kid in her 20s
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Ezekiel 25:17
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Not gonna lie, that having kids at a young age sounds goated. Almost like a cry now, laugh later thing. Get that shyt out the way by 40 and you're still youthful with no responsibilities.
Westbama Heartthrob
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Expect introspection on Facebook brehs
Though it would be lowkey fukked up on the kid's side to see their mom admit to regretting them cause they couldn't have a hot girl summers
Though it would be lowkey fukked up on the kid's side to see their mom admit to regretting them cause they couldn't have a hot girl summers
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Lol @ the 1st comment
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Richard Glidewell
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That's the exception.........we know all too well what the rule looks like.......for everyone that bounces back, and even that's subjective, there are hundreds that crash and stay crashed. Some people go this route because they know they have the support system in place to endure and they still crash.......having that support is a double edged sword because it will allow someone fuxking up to keep doing so without consequences.........I have always fuxked with MJ heavy on that if YOU.......YOU.......can't feed your baby, then don't have a baby........and don't think maybe, if you can't feed your bay bay
They may be hating but they're right. My parents had me young, and if you can afford it and have a good support system it is far >>>>> than having kids late.
And yes being an empty nester in your 40s is goated. Plus being able to play with your kids when they are young was great for us too. My dad would play pickup ball with me and friends and dunk on people. Made him superhero status for us back in middle school.
And yes being an empty nester in your 40s is goated. Plus being able to play with your kids when they are young was great for us too. My dad would play pickup ball with me and friends and dunk on people. Made him superhero status for us back in middle school.
cyndaquil
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Who cares do what's right for you and stop trying to make people live one way or the other. There's pros and cons to everything.
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I’m honestly curious as to what topics white people on message boards and social media talk about?
The best is to have kids when your friends have kids. That way you are on the same wavelength.
It's cool to be an empty nester at 40 but if your friends are in the phase where their kids are still young then guess what, you doing a lot of shyt by yourself.
A couple of my friends had kids young and they were always trying to get us to do local shyt when the rest of us wanted to travel overseas. Seriously, I can go to Panama City, Florida or Panama City, Panama. nikka we going to Panama, have fun at that dance recital!
It's cool to be an empty nester at 40 but if your friends are in the phase where their kids are still young then guess what, you doing a lot of shyt by yourself.
A couple of my friends had kids young and they were always trying to get us to do local shyt when the rest of us wanted to travel overseas. Seriously, I can go to Panama City, Florida or Panama City, Panama. nikka we going to Panama, have fun at that dance recital!
Wouldn’t you have to experience both to know which one is better for YOU? This shyt is stupid 
Trying to "get kids out the way" is why people aren't truly fit to be parents. Having kids isn't about you.