I don't really talk about my former classmates that much
However, I see this one girl all the time at the store I go to. So, I struck up a convo with her on Halloween (she works there). I asked her, "Do you have any goals?". I'm not going to go into detail, but her response was mindblowing and sad (personal shyt). It goes to show you that everyone has some type of hardship. Also, Christmas is one month away and shyt. The chick and I talk. Anyway, even though I'm slowly picking up my own life I'm asking the person in a nice way that I'd befriend her. Granted, this person likes being alone.
Is that a good idea? Also the chick is Black like me
P.S. no I haven't flirted and she's not my type. However, it's good to befriend people that have no one. As long as your intentions are pure and in good faith.
However, I see this one girl all the time at the store I go to. So, I struck up a convo with her on Halloween (she works there). I asked her, "Do you have any goals?". I'm not going to go into detail, but her response was mindblowing and sad (personal shyt). It goes to show you that everyone has some type of hardship. Also, Christmas is one month away and shyt. The chick and I talk. Anyway, even though I'm slowly picking up my own life I'm asking the person in a nice way that I'd befriend her. Granted, this person likes being alone.Is that a good idea? Also the chick is Black like me
P.S. no I haven't flirted and she's not my type. However, it's good to befriend people that have no one. As long as your intentions are pure and in good faith.

Fam that wasn't the time nor was it your place to ask her that. Even if you say you weren't trying to flirt or anything, it was a poor decision to ask her that, even if she spilled her life story to you. bytches will do that because they love to talk. You will turn a lot of them off by asking personal shyt like that out of the blue. But good for you actually talking to a female, it will help you get better conversing with them especially since you're not looking for anything romantic from her.

Also, I talk to females on the regular while I'm at the convenience store or super market.