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How do I get my parents to stop fighting
They are usually loving and caring for each other
They've argued before but this is the worst I've ever seen
Mom is crying she's not eating or nothing they sleep in Seperate places now I hear them yell at each other and I just want them to stop.


I'm usually a all to myself or people handle their own problems type of person but I'm afraid of divorce
Is there anythin I can do


Edit: they were arguing about my dad looked at some female sexually and my mom doesn't feel wanted to or something like that
 
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well if you dad has side p*ssy, there's nothing u can do - he won't be rational.


But if they are christian... then I think Christians have the best counselors... they need to check it out. Even if they split- counseling will make it so they aren't at each others throats.
 

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don't let it get to you. just console your mom and be there for her. you're still a young nicca and don't understand this sh1t. you too will act exactly as your dad. don't be all crazy and angry at your pops. real niccas just get tired of bytches.. regaardless of how fine they are. that's just how we're all wired.


you can try encourage your pops to be nicer to your mom though and that family is important. might work, might not. you step up to the plate and be the man of the house..
 

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Talk to each of them and see what their issue is. Then try to share that perspective with the other parent.
 

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How do I get my parents to stop fighting
They are usually loving and caring for each other
They've argued before but this is the worst I've ever seen
Mom is crying she's not eating or nothing they sleep in Seperate places now I hear them yell at each other and I just want them to stop.


I'm usually a all to myself or people handle their own problems type of person but I'm afraid of divorce
Is there anythin I can do


Edit: they were arguing about my dad looked at some female sexually and my mom doesn't feel wanted to or something like that

how old are you; try talking to them individually first to get the respective perspectives; how long have they been married? define looked at someone sexually :dwillhuh:
 

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how old are you; try talking to them individually first to get the respective perspectives; how long have they been married? define looked at someone sexually :dwillhuh:
I'm 18 if they get divorced I'm glad it wasn't when I was younger
But if they do split I'm living with my aunt in the DMV

They've been married for almost 30 years and my mom is just crying every day, I've never seen her like this
 

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Sounds like they are going through a tough time in their marriage. You can definitely let each of them know how much it bothers you that they are fighting so much and that you don't like to see them hurt each other. As someone said above, you could suggest counseling to them but you should not get really involved in their argument yourself.

They decided to marry each other, they have to figure out how to work through this and they have to decide if they want to continue staying married. It's something they have to work through on their own.

You cannot get them to stop fighting. They have to choose to do that on their own. But you can tell them each how you feel about it.
 
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