The catalyst for the quandary came on March 25 in a private shore condominium. That's where a group of officials who’d worked the War at the Shore youth tournament in Wildwood gathered — as these groups tend to do at such events — for some drinks and fellowship.
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But what happened around 9:30 that night created a controversy that’s cast a dark and whisper-filled shadow across the sport’s community in South Jersey.
Over a disagreement about homemade wine, said Preston Hamilton, who is African American, fellow referee Alan Maloney poked his finger in his chest and hurled the epithet.
Maloney told the Courier-Post he does not remember using the word at all, let alone directing it at Hamilton, but believes the accounts of witnesses who told him he said the word.
Hamilton told the Courier-Post he responded by slamming Maloney, who is white, to the ground.
The confrontation ended there. The fallout, however, did not.
Through a convoluted process that lasted nearly half a year, the New Jersey Wrestling Officials Association ruled it has no jurisdiction over what happened that night.
“We’re going to move forward from here and hopefully this thing has been resolved in the back of a lot of people’s minds,” NJWOA President Guy Siraki said. “That’s my statement at this point.”
Maloney says he called Hamilton and apologized to him two days later, on Easter Sunday.
“I left it alone,” Hamilton recalled. “I’ve known Al since I was 4 years old. I was just trying to leave it alone.
“I talked to my dad about it. ... (He) gave me the advice, ‘You tell your kids about not being racist, how can you let this just blow over?’”