Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[Mandarin Duck]

You aren’t the only one in life that has self esteem issues and you aren’t the only one in this thread that has had to battle it.

That’s been established and people across multiple post have acknowledged that. What reactions/feedback/etc are you looking to get at this point?

Have yet to have heard a dude share my experience.

Plus y'all got females, I ain't got shyt better to do

 

[V Skyye]

Y'all always wrong.
The older woman is telling the men to be miserable like them.

I hope no young men end up like me .

Although you are somewhat down on yourself, you seem very self aware and less bitter than some people who are actively dating and in relationships. Brehs are in here having emotional breakdowns and telling you to lie and scheme for women. Your responses are actually quite calm, introspective, and full of clarity.

I think you should do and be whatever makes you happy. Good luck.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Get in the gym

Yall are hilarious

 

[Ski Mask]

Yes but would you have ever said that women don’t and won’t find you atttactive?

Yeah i thought that, and that's my point it didn't matter what I thought when I lost the weight, i didn't need to love myself, I didn't need therapy, just going from fat to skinny fat made people look the other way. I understand positive thinking, but not to the point it flies in the face of reality.

Even tho I stopped being in those circles I completely understand why some incels feel the way they do. It's not just the fact that the possibility of them never finding anyone is real, it's also the fact that people like to gaslight and pretend they don't exist.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Although you are somewhat down on yourself, you seem very self aware and less bitter than some people who are actively dating and in relationships. Brehs are in here having emotional breakdowns and telling you to lie and scheme for women. Your responses are actually quite calm, introspective, and full of clarity.

I think you should do and be whatever makes you happy. Good luck.

If the answer is lie, okay. I'm fine with that.

But we are not about to sit here and pretend that women want to deal with a 35 year old with not experience..

 

[Ski Mask]

It's a lot of women dating men who aren't physically attractive because that man is confident, funny, and has himself together in other aspects that attract her to him. How women view attractiveness and how men view it are fundamentally different.

And there's alot who aren't. There isn't someone for everyone breh and pretending there is, isnt helping them.

I never said that women are a hiveman but never in human history did 100% of men hit it off with a woman. Were playing the same mating game like any other mammal breh and like the others there are winners and they are losers and the losers aren't all whiny basement dwellers who don't talk to women. Ive seen them hell my great aunt knew a man who was an 80 year old virgin. Life ain't fair for everyone

 

[The ADD]

Yeah i thought that, and that's my point it didn't matter what I thought when I lost the weight, i didn't need to love myself, I didn't need therapy, just going from fat to skinny fat made people look the other way. I understand positive thinking, but not to the point it flies in the face of reality.

Even tho I stopped being in those circles I completely understand why some incels feel the way they do. It's not just the fact that the possibility of them never finding anyone is real, it's also the fact that people like to gaslight and pretend they don't exist.

There are some people dismissing it and some people (myself included) tried to give him perspective having been in a similar place. That was dismissed so I struggle with what the expected outcome is. Generally speaking when people share there is a transition to how to fix, improve, etc. the situation.

 

[Ski Mask]

Yall are hilarious

Like I said pre written scripts play in their head when they come across someone whos life ain't been fair to. And it's funny

There are some people dismissing it and some people (myself included) tried to give him perspective having been in a similar place. That was dismissed so I struggle with what the expected outcome is. Generally speaking when people share there is a transition to how to fix, improve, etc. the situation.

Breh i completely understand that loneliness isn't just an incel thing, but you can understand why someone whos amputated might not fully relate to someone who has a broken bone.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I struggle with what the expected outcome is.

I never asked for helped, y'all just started spewing out your rehearsed stereotypical optimism.