Random and rational reasons you stopped talking to someone

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This will be a thread to add to over time. Often when something like this happens the person who has to make this decision is living out an isolated experience. Share your stories

 

[Seoul Gleou]

Is it random if you can rationalize it and had intent to stop?

 

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Is it random if you can rationalize it and had intent to stop?

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[Complexion]

No point thinking about it. Relationships are like melodies played on the keys. When they're in sync its a beautiful piece and when they're not I'm out.

 

[Dont@Me]

Woman got agitated that I couldn't spend the night even when I told her I had to leave early for work before we met up. Got paranoid I'd hit and quit it and I eventually did due to the self-prophecy from her clingy nature

 

[Redwood]

Ex trying to come back

 

[KeysT]

Wasn’t feeling her natural scent.
General scent not sexual either.

 

[RadaMillz]

always pay attention to how they talk about other people, that's how they will talk about you one day

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

Wasn’t feeling her natural scent.
General scent not sexual either.

Had a similar experience recently. This girl’s entire diet was alcohol and deep fried processed foods with heavy garlic and onion usage and there would always be this underlying smell on her breath and I wouldn’t call it bad but I just didn’t like it. I felt like I was smelling years of inestinal flora abuse working it’s way up through her mouth. It took a few dates to realize this

By the end I was conflicted because it was hard to realize she was taking me seriously when everything about our interactions were so surface level and I would usually show up too late to do any of the stupid stuff she wanted to do through the day like go to bars and play at arcades, I simply indulged her nymphomania and her style of sex was entirely hedonistic and lacked any semblance of sensuality and that’s all that was asked of me in this exchange but the underlying scent/smell, it just always smelled like she just ate deep fried scallions

I eventually acted like I was completely caught off guard when she started talking about a relationship and I haven’t seen her since although we sometimes will exchange pleasantries through message and she will send me songs now and then. Although I didn’t take her seriously as a relationship prospect I did appreciate her general excitable nature, I just really didn’t want to experience that smell again

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Dude had drugs in the car and was off some pills. Almost got us jammed up in the car cuz he was off pills missin turns, almost drove into a building, kept driving by pine lawn police because he kept missin turns.


Almost took another pill cuz his cousin was pressuring him to do it and i had the foresight to talk him out of it.


We was supposed to go to the gym. That nikka dropped me off somehow and I deleted his number and i never heard from him again

 

[Silkk]

Wasn’t feeling her natural scent.
General scent not sexual either.

This gets overlooked but i’ve done the same

 

[Luke Cage]

This happened twice. with two different girls
talking to a girl and she told me my cousin used to mess with her.

immediately lost interest. not even on some jealously type shyt, or some ew we fukking the same type shyt either.
just don't want a woman to be so gassed up she think everybody in my whole family want her.
caused me to pivot to, she not bad enough to run through all of us.

 

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Another one; trying to pressure me into a relationship right after sex despite nothing prior indicating that kind of connection

I didn’t even say any of this stuff after but girl your life is entirely fukked up right now how could you possibly ask someone to be in a relationship with you. If I was just some nice guy I probably would of just said yes or something and there is somebody out there who would but the nerve, audacious disrespect and just blatant disregard for the wellbeing of others to actually dump all your issues in life on somebody by pushing yourself into a relationship


Your kids are in CPS and you were secretly squatting in your ex’s house

 

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This happened twice. with two different girls
talking to a girl and she told me my cousin used to mess with her.

immediately lost interest. not even on some jealously type shyt, or some ew we fukking the same type shyt either.
just don't want a woman to be so gassed up she think everybody in my whole family want her.
caused me to pivot to, she not bad enough to run through all of us.

the idea of some girl saying this as a point of validation or something, on some “even my cousin wants me”

 

[The Pledge]

I dropped a few people for being fake ambitious.

Basically all talk, no action. I hate being stagnant so I get away from that type of shyt at all cost.