Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm in the South as well, breh. I find that west coast women are friendlier though...never chopped it up with a northern chick before.

I lived in the north up until 07 and Northern women are more "tough love".On outside they are tough and put up a guard but once they get to know you,let their guard down they are pretty nice :leon: but west coast women (Cali,Texas) are by far the best.They are the type if they seen you eating lunch by yourself,they would go out of their way to eat lunch with you. Very friendly.
 

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I lived in the north up until 07 and Northern women are more "tough love".On outside they are tough and put up a guard but once they get to know you,let their guard down they are pretty nice :leon: but west coast women (Cali,Texas) are by far the best.They are the type if they seen you eating lunch by yourself,they would go out of their way to eat lunch with you. Very friendly.

So what would you say about poisonous women in Hollywood and LA like certain famous actresses?

:comeon:

No offense to you two guys but lets be serious, a woman is a woman. We can't keep overdoing the whole regional thing too much. I mean i understand slightly but i think we have been going over the top lately.
 

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So what would you say about poisonous women in Hollywood and LA like certain famous actresses?

:comeon:

No offense to you two guys but lets be serious, a woman is a woman. We can't keep overdoing the whole regional thing too much. I mean i understand slightly but i think we have been going over the top lately.

A woman is a woman but there are some GOOD ones out there.Its just finding them,thats the issue.An actress whole persona is fantasy.There is a reason why Hollyweird gets divorced alot.....everything is a ploy.Face it not many of us have a shot at Halle Berry,J LO.So actresses dont apply to what Kartwheel and I were saying Now back to real life women,please believe region has alot to do wih a woman. A woman is a product of her environment.Although they are impossible to predict,you can tell differences in them regarding region. A ratchet Baltimore chick and a "southern belle" maybe be different in terms of mannerisms and how they grew up,but they are still 1 in the same."Baltimore chick" may outwardly do you dirty and a Southern Belle may do you dirty in a different way.Hence reason why we said a certain region aka Southern Bell may come off as sweet,innocent but may be downright dirty.TRUST ME every little detail about a woman matters.Where she from,how she grew up...
 
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Facebook the females you meet and check out their photos. If she's taking pics of herself all the time its a bad sign. The ones who do that tend to be attention seekers.
 

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I haven't really been posting much lately, but one of the main reasons is because I've been doing a ton of reading and working on this book I'm writing. Glad to see the conversation is still going and I will return soon with more..

On the subject of what I want from a woman, let me answer that question succinctly. I want a woman that can humble herself and accept my leadership, and more importantly God's leadership and is built to last with me for the long-term.
 

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3. Be prepared to take the L.
Like it's been said here before, your girl needs to know that you have no problem taking your ball and going home. There needs to be boundaries set, and she needs to know that there are consequences to crossing these boundaries. I don't sell my girl dreams, we are not together because of a magical connection or fate. I DECIDED to be with her and to put the work into the relationship, and I can just as easily DECIDE to part ways. While I love her, my happiness is SUPREME, and if her love ever gets in the way of my happiness, actions will be taken.

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Damn fam, I’m putting quite a bit of funds into the a new gal I’m dating. The thing is, I do believe she has wifey type qualities and I can usually smell when a broad is using me for something (which is okay if its reciprocated, i.e. courting her/taking her out in exchange for a fella getting that real good pinuss/head touch).

What I do appreciate is that there are still good women out there that like to be court but don’t understand that not all dudes cake like that. I mean, it’s getting to the point where I only want to see her once a week cuz after 7 dates in, I prolly spent almost half a g on food/drinks/gas/gum etc.).

Now, I’m not a simp in any form of the word. But when you are infatuated with somebody who shows that same kind of interest, how frugal are you supposed to be? To convey leadership and manhood to a babe, you gotta be able to provide (and if that means relinquishing funds to support the outings, then so be it).

But by the end of the day, I guess what I’m trying to say is that it’s only worf it if there’s certainty that she’ll stick around and love you for you (and not the fact that you’re basically filling a void or acting like the Dennis Rodman of the companionship; straight rebound).

My money game ain’t strong, and she has been quite accepting at the fact that I’m a grown dude who takes care of his folks (or, lives at home, I try to make it seem like I’m keeping the domestic shiit in check so I come off as a provider. LOL. But it’s genuine – I love my folks. Can you blame me? Yes you can but don’t).

Her little gestures here and there tell me that she’s interested (i.e. before knowing my residence, telling me that we should meet up closer to my place so I didn’t have to keep driving to her area,

My biggest short coming is that I still live at the crib, but I think my other qualities make up for the ill-independence (I do plan on leaving the nest, but right now, the struggle is in the monetary strife, so I just gotta watch what I spend cuz the clothes, Jay Oh’s and alcohol flow ain’t help my cause. Y’all know that I eat tuna and cheese kaysadeeyas so I have money to spend on her on the weekends? A fella could be eating good at least 3 nights a week, that vegetary with the brown rice shiit – but I sacrifice for the name of love).

J. Lo fukked up when she said love ain’t cost a thang. Shiits putting dents on my account so bad, Maaco wouldn’t fukk with it).


So if this ain't courting, then its better to just skip the trial...


cuz i'm already guilty as charged.


*pleads the 5rst*


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Damn fam, I’m putting quite a bit of funds into the a new gal I’m dating. The thing is, I do believe she has wifey type qualities and I can usually smell when a broad is using me for something (which is okay if its reciprocated, i.e. courting her/taking her out in exchange for a fella getting that real good pinuss/head touch).

What I do appreciate is that there are still good women out there that like to be court but don’t understand that not all dudes cake like that. I mean, it’s getting to the point where I only want to see her once a week cuz after 7 dates in, I prolly spent almost half a g on food/drinks/gas/gum etc.).

Now, I’m not a simp in any form of the word. But when you are infatuated with somebody who shows that same kind of interest, how frugal are you supposed to be? To convey leadership and manhood to a babe, you gotta be able to provide (and if that means relinquishing funds to support the outings, then so be it).

But by the end of the day, I guess what I’m trying to say is that it’s only worf it if there’s certainty that she’ll stick around and love you for you (and not the fact that you’re basically filling a void or acting like the Dennis Rodman of the companionship; straight rebound).

My money game ain’t strong, and she has been quite accepting at the fact that I’m a grown dude who takes care of his folks (or, lives at home, I try to make it seem like I’m keeping the domestic shiit in check so I come off as a provider. LOL. But it’s genuine – I love my folks. Can you blame me? Yes you can but don’t).

Her little gestures here and there tell me that she’s interested (i.e. before knowing my residence, telling me that we should meet up closer to my place so I didn’t have to keep driving to her area,

My biggest short coming is that I still live at the crib, but I think my other qualities make up for the ill-independence (I do plan on leaving the nest, but right now, the struggle is in the monetary strife, so I just gotta watch what I spend cuz the clothes, Jay Oh’s and alcohol flow ain’t help my cause. Y’all know that I eat tuna and cheese kaysadeeyas so I have money to spend on her on the weekends? A fella could be eating good at least 3 nights a week, that vegetary with the brown rice shiit – but I sacrifice for the name of love).

J. Lo fukked up when she said love ain’t cost a thang. Shiits putting dents on my account so bad, Maaco wouldn’t fukk with it).


So if this ain't courting, then its better to just skip the trial...


cuz i'm already guilty as charged.


*pleads the 5rst*


.

Man you're confusing courting with spending money. I courted the hell out of my ex but we went 50-50 on everything. Courting isn't about shelling out money, its about engaging a woman in a way that impresses her. What's more important than spending money is finding unique, fun things to do together and building that chemistry through conversation.

J. Lo was right. A good woman doesn't expect you to be spending money on her. What's more important is your time and company. So the question is, if you have a good woman, why are you spending so much on her? If she's truly into you and is a good person, keeping your money won't change a thing.

Imo you need to re-evaluate your life's priorities. You're having money issues, can't afford to live on your own, yet you're spending most of your money on a female that isn't even guaranteed to be around in a year. Think about what you're doing man. You'll feel like a complete fool if she breaks up with you. You won't get any of that money back.


To convey leadership and manhood to a babe, you gotta be able to provide (and if that means relinquishing funds to support the outings, then so be it).

Now where did you get this misconceived idea? Simps provide everything yet they have non of the leadership skills you're talking about.

Now, I’m not a simp in any form of the word. But when you are infatuated with somebody who shows that same kind of interest, how frugal are you supposed to be?

Money won't buy you real love.
 
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