Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Hey, it's ***. I hope you are well. I know that this is probably a text that you don't want to read and it will probably annoy you to see my name pop up but this is something that I have to do, and I know that it's long overdue but here goes.
I want to apologize for going MIA on you when we had agreed to fix things. And I'm sorry that it took this long for me to actually apologize. You might not care for my explanation right now but I want to give it to you anyways. You were right, I went into this waiting for you to let me down and in you not doing that, I started panicking and unintentionally sabotaging us. I was and still am shocked at the kind of connection that we had and I felt that it was too good to be true. But all of this I internalized and didn't discuss with you because I knew you would make me feel better about it and the idea of you having that much power over me scared me.
I should have told you how I was feeling like you suggested many times but I was scared. I was scared that I liked you so much so soon I started making stupid decisions- I mean we had unprotected sex without even going to get tested together first- that was too wild and reckless, and I started fearing what else I would do if I felt that comfortable with you that soon.
I wasn't ready to unpack all of this with you when we reconnected, hence I was a bit hasty in wanting things to go back to normal, even though you were still upset at me for the misunderstanding we had about me not communicating timeous it with you. I realize that it's not fair for me to start a dialogue with you right now so I would like you to know that that isn't what I'm doing. You genuinely don't even need to respond to this, I just needed to get this message across, in case how I left things made you think that I didn't care.
I did care, so much. Which is why after fighting with myself for so long, I decided to take the leap and let you know where my mind was at. And to let you know that I'm sorry things unfolded the way they did. I didn't realize getting to know you would need me to be as open as you needed me to be, in hindsight I wasn't ready and I didn't even know that I wasn't. And that's my fault because I should have known myself better than I did.
I hope you are okay. And I really hope you find someone who can give you the things that you are looking for. I enjoyed every moment spent with you. I hope you enjoy the rest of your year
Got another one of those texts earlier today
fukked around with this chick back in November last year then she ghosted me out of nowhere. Now today she came out of the woodwork and sent me that text
I spent last night fukking a girl who has the same name as a girl she (girl who sent the text) once mentioned as part of her circle. Im starting to wonder if this text was sent because the girl i was with last night went back and told her friends about what happened and the girl who ghosted me ended up finding out that i fukked one of her girls unknowingly, hence the lengthy text out of nowhere. I mean, we all live in the same City
Not even sure if i should just ignore this text and pretend i didnt read it
on the flip side though, good to know these hoes think im a standup dude
lol it’s like these chicks got a book where they have text msgs like these
I always say the best thing you can do is ignore or say something like k no worries hope all is well
if you begged and grovelled and asked why they’d get their closure but because it’s like
they can’t get over it These chicks think we are simps like most dudes out there
Hey, it's ***. I hope you are well. I know that this is probably a text that you don't want to read and it will probably annoy you to see my name pop up but this is something that I have to do, and I know that it's long overdue but here goes.
I want to apologize for going MIA on you when we had agreed to fix things. And I'm sorry that it took this long for me to actually apologize. You might not care for my explanation right now but I want to give it to you anyways. You were right, I went into this waiting for you to let me down and in you not doing that, I started panicking and unintentionally sabotaging us. I was and still am shocked at the kind of connection that we had and I felt that it was too good to be true. But all of this I internalized and didn't discuss with you because I knew you would make me feel better about it and the idea of you having that much power over me scared me.
I should have told you how I was feeling like you suggested many times but I was scared. I was scared that I liked you so much so soon I started making stupid decisions- I mean we had unprotected sex without even going to get tested together first- that was too wild and reckless, and I started fearing what else I would do if I felt that comfortable with you that soon.
I wasn't ready to unpack all of this with you when we reconnected, hence I was a bit hasty in wanting things to go back to normal, even though you were still upset at me for the misunderstanding we had about me not communicating timeous it with you. I realize that it's not fair for me to start a dialogue with you right now so I would like you to know that that isn't what I'm doing. You genuinely don't even need to respond to this, I just needed to get this message across, in case how I left things made you think that I didn't care.
I did care, so much. Which is why after fighting with myself for so long, I decided to take the leap and let you know where my mind was at. And to let you know that I'm sorry things unfolded the way they did. I didn't realize getting to know you would need me to be as open as you needed me to be, in hindsight I wasn't ready and I didn't even know that I wasn't. And that's my fault because I should have known myself better than I did.
I hope you are okay. And I really hope you find someone who can give you the things that you are looking for. I enjoyed every moment spent with you. I hope you enjoy the rest of your year
Got another one of those texts earlier today
fukked around with this chick back in November last year then she ghosted me out of nowhere. Now today she came out of the woodwork and sent me that text
I spent last night fukking a girl who has the same name as a girl she (girl who sent the text) once mentioned as part of her circle. Im starting to wonder if this text was sent because the girl i was with last night went back and told her friends about what happened and the girl who ghosted me ended up finding out that i fukked one of her girls unknowingly, hence the lengthy text out of nowhere. I mean, we all live in the same City
Not even sure if i should just ignore this text and pretend i didnt read it
on the flip side though, good to know these hoes think im a standup dude
leave it on read
This generation of women are dumb as fukk.
1st woman: She’s on spring break and starts giving me choosing signals, she’s talking about connecting later and insinuating I buy her food. *bushes*
2nd woman: “You look familiar” takes my number, we flirt a bit, I ask her what’s she’s doing later, no response *bushes*
3rd woman: we kick it, make out all night, and acting stupid cause she’s known me forever and wants me to use a condom. I tell her, I can go downstairs and get one and she’s like no, it’s not an in & out thing.
All black btw.
1st woman: She’s on spring break and starts giving me choosing signals, she’s talking about connecting later and insinuating I buy her food. *bushes*
2nd woman: “You look familiar” takes my number, we flirt a bit, I ask her what’s she’s doing later, no response *bushes*
3rd woman: we kick it, make out all night, and acting stupid cause she’s known me forever and wants me to use a condom. I tell her, I can go downstairs and get one and she’s like no, it’s not an in & out thing.
All black btw.
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What?This generation of women are dumb as fukk.
1st woman: She’s on spring break and starts giving me choosing signals, she’s talking about connecting later and insinuating I buy her food. *bushes*
2nd woman: “You look familiar” takes my number, we flirt a bit, I ask her what’s she’s doing later, no response *bushes*
3rd woman: we kick it, make out all night, and acting stupid cause she’s known me forever and wants me to use a condom. I tell her, I can go downstairs and get one and she’s like no, it’s not and I’m & our thing.
All black btw.
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
Hey, it's ***. I hope you are well. I know that this is probably a text that you don't want to read and it will probably annoy you to see my name pop up but this is something that I have to do, and I know that it's long overdue but here goes.
I want to apologize for going MIA on you when we had agreed to fix things. And I'm sorry that it took this long for me to actually apologize. You might not care for my explanation right now but I want to give it to you anyways. You were right, I went into this waiting for you to let me down and in you not doing that, I started panicking and unintentionally sabotaging us. I was and still am shocked at the kind of connection that we had and I felt that it was too good to be true. But all of this I internalized and didn't discuss with you because I knew you would make me feel better about it and the idea of you having that much power over me scared me.
I should have told you how I was feeling like you suggested many times but I was scared. I was scared that I liked you so much so soon I started making stupid decisions- I mean we had unprotected sex without even going to get tested together first- that was too wild and reckless, and I started fearing what else I would do if I felt that comfortable with you that soon.
I wasn't ready to unpack all of this with you when we reconnected, hence I was a bit hasty in wanting things to go back to normal, even though you were still upset at me for the misunderstanding we had about me not communicating timeous it with you. I realize that it's not fair for me to start a dialogue with you right now so I would like you to know that that isn't what I'm doing. You genuinely don't even need to respond to this, I just needed to get this message across, in case how I left things made you think that I didn't care.
I did care, so much. Which is why after fighting with myself for so long, I decided to take the leap and let you know where my mind was at. And to let you know that I'm sorry things unfolded the way they did. I didn't realize getting to know you would need me to be as open as you needed me to be, in hindsight I wasn't ready and I didn't even know that I wasn't. And that's my fault because I should have known myself better than I did.
I hope you are okay. And I really hope you find someone who can give you the things that you are looking for. I enjoyed every moment spent with you. I hope you enjoy the rest of your year
Got another one of those texts earlier today
fukked around with this chick back in November last year then she ghosted me out of nowhere. Now today she came out of the woodwork and sent me that text
I spent last night fukking a girl who has the same name as a girl she (girl who sent the text) once mentioned as part of her circle. Im starting to wonder if this text was sent because the girl i was with last night went back and told her friends about what happened and the girl who ghosted me ended up finding out that i fukked one of her girls unknowingly, hence the lengthy text out of nowhere. I mean, we all live in the same City
Not even sure if i should just ignore this text and pretend i didnt read it
on the flip side though, good to know these hoes think im a standup dude
Lool, that 'you having that much power over me' line is a favourite of these hoes. You can tell she's a seasoned thot because the amateurs don't say that, the girls that have been doing this stuff for awhile are the ones that pull those type of lines out the bag.
my fault, she said, it’s not an “In & out” situation. Like I can’t go out and come back. Meanwhile, I’m fingering her and she then says stop, it’s time for me to go.
I took that as a “okay so she wants to make me wait, while Quan smashes her cheeks, once I leave her spot. Straight bushes.
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It's not that black and white to be real with you. You would be surprised. A lot of inexperienced and independent young women out here who are stuck in their ways. It depends on the person, really.
my fault, she said, it’s not an “In & out” situation. Like I can’t go out and come back. Meanwhile, I’m fingering her and she then says stop, it’s time for me to go.
I took that as a “okay so she wants to make me wait, while Quan smashes her cheeks, once I leave her spot. Straight bushes.
She wanted you to keep going and hit raw?You ever smash yet?
You ever smash yet?
Nah this was like the 1st meet up. But I don’t play that game / blue ball shyt. I’m out.
I gotta another literally saying the same thing “We can link But we aren’t having sex, wrong girl”
I feel you lol
I had a chick the other day message me after we matched asking me to “tell her about myself”
I know thats a normal question but I don’t even feel like going through that whole getting to know somebody stage right now. Chick would have to be my perfect prototype for me to invest time into that shyt right now with all I got going on.
I feel you lol
I had a chick the other day message me after we matched asking me to “tell her about myself”
I know thats a normal question but I don’t even feel like going through that whole getting to know somebody stage right now. Chick would have to be my perfect prototype for me to invest time into that shyt right now with all I got going on.
That’s what it’s become lol. A bunch of interview questions. It all starts to sound the same after awhile.
I hate that “tell me about yourself” question, mad lazy. At this point, they gotta show me more, if not, I’m dipping. All this extra work for what?
Bruh...you might have to start running the 96 keith sweat "simp"game....
You might not be making them comfortable enough...
They are already intimidated by you and instead of "valuing" them, your treating then like they are disposable...
You gotta work to your strengths...
That dmx what these bytches want from a nikka style isnt for you...
Women see you as high value and you are basically shooting yourself in the foot because you are skipping steps...
They want a high value man to "romance" them out their panties...
I just kinda realized this shyt
Bruh...you might have to start running the 96 keith sweat "simp"game....
You might not be making them comfortable enough...
They are already intimidated by you and instead of "valuing" them, your treating then like they are disposable...
You gotta work to your strengths...
That dmx what these bytches want from a nikka style isnt for you...
Women see you as high value and you are basically shooting yourself in the foot because you are skipping steps...
They want a high value man to "romance" them out their panties...
I just kinda realized this shyt
Oh shyt
you fukking nailed it. I was thinking about this today.. what’s different from how I use to get them? How should I adjust? & this possibly might be my game plan. Gona try it out and see how this goes..
Appreciate the advice