Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Real talk breh. Honestly, if I had a bunch of kids I wouldn’t even tell a bytch. bytches don’t need to know about my personal life like that. We just fukking and vibing. Don’t worry about nothing that don’t concern you. Chicks talking like they gotta pay for a nikkas kids with another woman and shyt. Hoe STFU. :mjlol:

hell i only tell chicks my middle name
only if it goes somewhere will i tell em my real name
 

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Do y'all call women out and punch holes in their logic, letting them know you know they are telling lies or you just ignore them and move on?
Do y'all let them know their excuses aren't making sense?
 

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she came and stay for 3 days
she really know hw to take care of nikka
she cooked everyday
sex n head was fuego:ohlawd:

we culdnt separate from other the whole time

i think i might fall in love

but here is the problem she has a bf , he doesnt care abt her and all
sometimes he doesnt call her for 2 weeks



wat y all think i shuld do , i wont lie
i really like her

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If he doesn’t call her for 2 weeks , why is she still with him?? something don’t make sense. If she not lying lol why would she still call him her BF..

I know most likely you aren’t going to listen , by don’t try to wife her.. something is off..
 

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If he doesn’t call her for 2 weeks , why is she still with him?? something don’t make sense. If she not lying lol why would she still call him her BF..

I know most likely you aren’t going to listen , by don’t try to wife her.. something is off..

as for now their relationship is over
that nikka ddnt want to end the relationship but now it's officially over
i still fukk but I got a side piece just in case
 

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Do y'all call women out and punch holes in their logic, letting them know you know they are telling lies or you just ignore them and move on?
Do y'all let them know their excuses aren't making sense?
You feel like wasting your time?


You can walk in on a woman getting piped by three nikkas on your bed and it will still wind up somehow being your fault :heh:
 

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I can't call it but Im about to test my theory and not hit her up.

When we first linked one of the first things she said was, "I didn't know you had another baby" and she's "I can't believe you had another kid" and some other variations a few times. I figure it's her not wanting to get too attached after having such a good time the first two nights but I don already beat the breaks off her so she might be having internal battles with herself :lolbron:

It’s because you have kids, she’s not trying to put too much into whatever it is y’all are doing. If i never reach out but respond when he reaches out, it’s typically either because I know I don’t have to reach out because he always will or he’s not a priority, just something to pass the time with. She’s getting good dikk and something to do while waiting to meet a breh that hits all the check boxes(aka no kids). Since y’all are just fukking it sounds like you both are just passing time together. But I have a feeling if y’all keep it up she’ll ended up catching feelings(if she hasn’t already begun to)
 

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Hey, it's ***. I hope you are well. I know that this is probably a text that you don't want to read and it will probably annoy you to see my name pop up but this is something that I have to do, and I know that it's long overdue but here goes.

I want to apologize for going MIA on you when we had agreed to fix things. And I'm sorry that it took this long for me to actually apologize. You might not care for my explanation right now but I want to give it to you anyways. You were right, I went into this waiting for you to let me down and in you not doing that, I started panicking and unintentionally sabotaging us. I was and still am shocked at the kind of connection that we had and I felt that it was too good to be true. But all of this I internalized and didn't discuss with you because I knew you would make me feel better about it and the idea of you having that much power over me scared me.

I should have told you how I was feeling like you suggested many times but I was scared. I was scared that I liked you so much so soon I started making stupid decisions- I mean we had unprotected sex without even going to get tested together first- that was too wild and reckless, and I started fearing what else I would do if I felt that comfortable with you that soon.

I wasn't ready to unpack all of this with you when we reconnected, hence I was a bit hasty in wanting things to go back to normal, even though you were still upset at me for the misunderstanding we had about me not communicating timeous it with you. I realize that it's not fair for me to start a dialogue with you right now so I would like you to know that that isn't what I'm doing. You genuinely don't even need to respond to this, I just needed to get this message across, in case how I left things made you think that I didn't care.

I did care, so much. Which is why after fighting with myself for so long, I decided to take the leap and let you know where my mind was at. And to let you know that I'm sorry things unfolded the way they did. I didn't realize getting to know you would need me to be as open as you needed me to be, in hindsight I wasn't ready and I didn't even know that I wasn't. And that's my fault because I should have known myself better than I did.

I hope you are okay. And I really hope you find someone who can give you the things that you are looking for. I enjoyed every moment spent with you. I hope you enjoy the rest of your year

Got another one of those texts earlier today :francis:
fukked around with this chick back in November last year then she ghosted me out of nowhere. Now today she came out of the woodwork and sent me that text :comeon:

I spent last night fukking a girl who has the same name as a girl she (girl who sent the text) once mentioned as part of her circle. Im starting to wonder if this text was sent because the girl i was with last night went back and told her friends about what happened and the girl who ghosted me ended up finding out that i fukked one of her girls unknowingly, hence the lengthy text out of nowhere. I mean, we all live in the same City :ohhh::patrice:


Not even sure if i should just ignore this text and pretend i didnt read it :jbhmm:


on the flip side though, good to know these hoes think im a standup dude :mjgrin:
 
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Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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Smash again and ghost :mjlit:
She ghosted you without thinking about how you were going to handle it, return the favor :mjlit:

the p*ssy was good after all :mjgrin:

I just cant shake the feeling that im being set up though because the bytch I was with last night asked me after sex if I have females who come back and trying to hit me up after I stopped talking to them. :lupe:
 

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Y'all remember that co-worker I told yall about couple pages back? I turned my radio signals off the last two weeks after she tried to style on me...I mean no contact unless spoken to and cordial if so. She back on my nuts now, lingering in my vicinity, and all that. On Friday she asked if I wanted to get lunch I said I'm good but didn't give an explanation, in that same moment my homegirl brings me a plate from the local Italian spot. I could feel the ether. :mjlol::myman:
 
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