Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Real talk brehs men are truly better people than women. So this chick jumps in my DMs on twitter like I’m so cute blah blah blah. And I’m answering her questions bout where I’m from, hobbies, etc. But from looking at her I already know she ain’t my type so why? If our genders were reversed a chick wouldn’t have even responded to the dm. So why do us men feel like we have to be polite all the time and guard women’s feelings? shyt is weird.
In america women have the most power in the dating game.
 

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Brehs, how do you detach yourself emotionally from someone you’re still involved with? I’ve noticed that I’m starting to like her way too much. We’re not in a relationship yet because of long distance. We’re waiting till she moves back here in the summer. Although she really likes me too, I’m starting to act different and over analyze everything. We’ve been talking everyday.
Assume she’s fukking another dude
 

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Talkin' to my playa potna he told me I was trippin and it's the perfect setup

I'm laid up with this chick I've been kickin' it with for a week and I'm just staring at the ceiling tryna keep my playa together. Of the current roster, she's the chick I like the most, (ex co-worker) but I don't hear from her unless I'm reaching out. At the same time she never opposes anything I wanna do. Since we re-linked last Tuesday, we've spent 4 nights together (woulda been 5 but I got in my feelings one night smh) but we can go the whole day without talking even if we have plans.

That leaves me plenty of opportunity to entertain the roster but I find myself wanting to use that energy on her, plus ion like that shyt at all :snoop:

I don't know how I'ma handle her but I know ima fall back. She was in a relationship when I met in her '12 and she said she's been single a year, so at least 7 years with the same dude, who dogged her and ended up in a relationship with a girl he was cheating with.
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I can't call it but Im about to test my theory and not hit her up.

When we first linked one of the first things she said was, "I didn't know you had another baby" and she's "I can't believe you had another kid" and some other variations a few times. I figure it's her not wanting to get too attached after having such a good time the first two nights but I don already beat the breaks off her so she might be having internal battles with herself :lolbron:
 

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I’m noticing more than ever that spiritual and financial growth >>> fuxking mad bytches. I’ve smashed so many bytches I can’t count but I have nothing to show for it just a bunch a nudes and headaches. The money I’m getting from grinding can at least be passed down to my family. :ehh:
 

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I can't call it but Im about to test my theory and not hit her up.

When we first linked one of the first things she said was, "I didn't know you had another baby" and she's "I can't believe you had another kid" and some other variations a few times. I figure it's her not wanting to get too attached after having such a good time the first two nights but I don already beat the breaks off her so she might be having internal battles with herself :lolbron:

Eh? The fukk does your kids have to do with y’all vibing and exploring one another? She gonna chip in on the bills for the kids or give you money to help out? No? Ok she need to mind her own business then and keep opening her legs to you and getting down on her knees to take what you got to give. She’s lain down with you already so you’re equals, check that shyt! Especially if she ain’t no upgrade type and I don’t mean looks, that ain’t shyt. Lots of females look good. But can she cook, got her own everything? Can she suck a mean dikk? Hate when females have asked me this shyt in the past , next thing you know she on her knees chewing on my bologna and sucking me dry.
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So this bytch finally replies to my message. she says has a boyfriend now, despite her telling me that she liked me and wanting to go the movies and dinner. She says let's be friends. Yo, should i light the dumb bytch ass up or just ignore her because i'm mad af right now?

Never lead with your emotions, it’s not manly and she’s probably half ass expecting to get a reaction from you. She a time waster in my opinion. So, I too encountered someone like this. A year later (a fukking year?) she hits me up with the ‘text’ wyd, you crossed my mind etc. I’m looking at the phone like why? :stopitslime: Anyway, she asks to go hangout. I immediately respond sure, as long as we fukking up headboards later :sas1:she says ok, get some liquor in me then. Ok. We hit up three bars and left lit. Mf was sucking me off on the way home. Said she wouldn’t swallow but she did. She went back to the bushes afterwards. This is my point, she never had a strict interest in you or maybe she wants you to be the safe guy (oh , that’s my friend etc or my homeboy) so no I don’t want to be your friend, why would you do that? Just hit me up when it’s my turn, bytch. You become her friend you’ll be wondering who laying her ass out etc or what she doing, man fukk her. Get on your A game and grind. She’ll be back. :sas2:
 

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Eh? The fukk does your kids have to do with y’all vibing and exploring one another? She gonna chip in on the bills for the kids or give you money to help out? No? Ok she need to mind her own business then and keep opening her legs to you and getting down on her knees to take what you got to give. She’s lain down with you already so you’re equals, check that shyt! Especially if she ain’t no upgrade type and I don’t mean looks, that ain’t shyt. Lots of females look good. But can she cook, got her own everything? Can she suck a mean dikk? Hate when females have asked me this shyt in the past , next thing you know she on her knees chewing on my bologna and sucking me dry.
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Real talk breh. Honestly, if I had a bunch of kids I wouldn’t even tell a bytch. bytches don’t need to know about my personal life like that. We just fukking and vibing. Don’t worry about nothing that don’t concern you. Chicks talking like they gotta pay for a nikkas kids with another woman and shyt. Hoe STFU. :mjlol:
 

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I’m noticing more than ever that spiritual and financial growth >>> fuxking mad bytches. I’ve smashed so many bytches I can’t count but I have nothing to show for it just a bunch a nudes and headaches. The money I’m getting from grinding can at least be passed down to my family. :ehh:

women will always be around
 

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I’m noticing more than ever that spiritual and financial growth >>> fuxking mad bytches. I’ve smashed so many bytches I can’t count but I have nothing to show for it just a bunch a nudes and headaches. The money I’m getting from grinding can at least be passed down to my family. :ehh:

Got my wife going back to school for her rn then nurse practitioner told her make that money so I can eat off her :russ:
Said if u wanna leave me I dont mind the alimony check:mjlol: plus child support :dead:
 

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Its crazy how men don't realize this.

the older i get the easier it has been to get women. I remember some times in my early twenties when I was single even getting a date was like climbing mount everest.

now its easy as climbing a fence in the park
 
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