Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Him]

well obviously wasn't perfect breh breh but it's all good

I know how you feel tho. We all been there. You just gotta man up take it to the head

but you gotta get her out of your head as quick as you can

The sooner u accept the truth the faster u will get rid of this sickness

I say sickness bc thats exactly what it is

Grieve but dont grieve too long, you’ve got work to do.

She still wants to be friends....Yeah she friend zoned my ass . We had a trip planned next week for a few days and she bought tickets to one of the events and now I feel like I'm locked In because I don't want her money to go to waste..What should I do fam

 

[ChiefKenji]

She still wants to be friends....Yeah she friend zoned my ass . We had a trip planned next week for a few days and she bought tickets to one of the events and now I feel like I'm locked In because I don't want her money to go to waste..What should I do fam

Tell her im good luv, enjoy. In your Future voice

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

She still wants to be friends....Yeah she friend zoned my ass . We had a trip planned next week for a few days and she bought tickets to one of the events and now I feel like I'm locked In because I don't want her money to go to waste..What should I do fam

ghost her

having her around is not gonna help you. Then she gets to flaunt herself in her face while you hurting

i you have any respect for yourself, you will ghost her and not look back

being friends is just gonna keep you in denial and thinking that you got a chance

nah, if y'all gonna get back together, she needs to come to you on her hands and knees (figure of speech) but still

other than that cut her off

 

[African_brehda]

I don't want her money to go to waste..What should I do fam

she didn't care how you felt, why do you care about her money?

And hope you didn't accept that friend shyt

 

[Him]

ghost her

having her around is not gonna help you. Then she gets to flaunt herself in her face while you hurting

i you have any respect for yourself, you will ghost her and not look back

being friends is just gonna keep you in denial and thinking that you got a chance

nah, if y'all gonna get back together, she needs to come to you on her hands and knees (figure of speech) but still

other than that cut her off

she didn't care how you felt, why do you care about her money?

And hope you didn't accept that friend shyt

How do you ghost someone you work with

 

[ChiefKenji]

How do you ghost someone you work with

Simple. By actually pretending she aint existing. If she talks to you, keep it super professional with 0 emotions. If it aint about work you dont need to hear it. If the convo leads to off-work topics, tell her you are going to continue work.

Hell dont even greet her if you see her in the hallways. And its not even being salty or butthurt. The woman is no longer of any value towards you so yeah. Be a dead man walking for her

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

How do you ghost someone you work with

Simple. By actually pretending she aint existing. If she talks to you, keep it super professional with 0 emotions. If it aint about work you dont need to hear it. If the convo leads to off-work topics, tell her you are going to continue work.

Hell dont even greet her if you see her in the hallways. And its not even being salty or butthurt. The woman is no longer of any value towards you so yeah. Be a dead man walking for her

what @ChiefKenji said but whatever you do, make sure that you show NO EMOTION

don't let her see you sweat. If you do, then you lost

she's gonna come around you, trying to look for signs that you're hurting so that she can on the inside

Don't give her that satisfaction

be on your purpose and don't pay her any attention. Don't show anger, don't show sadness, don't show anything

if you give her no emotional reaction, then she will be and cause she'll start to wonder if you ever cared about her at all

at this point you're winning. And even then, STILL don't show any emotion

 

[Iceson Beckford]

U work out?

Not atm.

I’m shorter than most cats my age aswell so I’m not really helping myself out here

But this summer my brother is helping me out.

 

[African_brehda]

How do you ghost someone you work with

You were told not to shyt where you eat

But I see you went there with bubble guts

 

[Him]

what @ChiefKenji said but whatever you do, make sure that you show NO EMOTION

don't let her see you sweat. If you do, then you lost

she's gonna come around you, trying to look for signs that you're hurting so that she can on the inside

Don't give her that satisfaction

be on your purpose and don't pay her any attention. Don't show anger, don't show sadness, don't show anything

if you give her no emotional reaction, then she will be and cause she'll start to wonder if you ever cared about her at all

at this point you're winning. And even then, STILL don't show any emotion

Simple. By actually pretending she aint existing. If she talks to you, keep it super professional with 0 emotions. If it aint about work you dont need to hear it. If the convo leads to off-work topics, tell her you are going to continue work.

Hell dont even greet her if you see her in the hallways. And its not even being salty or butthurt. The woman is no longer of any value towards you so yeah. Be a dead man walking for her

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Nah alotta people ur age in the same boat

Hell even older lol

Breh do me a favor

drop those friends

Female friends are useless for the most part. And from what i can tell they arent useful the way i think they are

Secondly, dont ever again in ur life ask female for dating advice. That just shot ur value down in their eyes. U gotta be sure of urself

Coli brehs taught me better but rookie error

My value to them clearly aint shyt if they aint put me w any of their friends

shyt took a knock to my self esteem though not gonna lie breh

 

[Turbulent]

Can someone give their thoughts on this.. I feel like it’s difficult to balance this

Perfect example when it’s a Monday & you set up a date for Saturday @ 8pm

I know Corey Wayne says shyt like phones/text are for setting up real life dates .. I get that ..


What’s a good middle ground so you don’t run out of shyt to talked about when you actually link

Or just enough so she doesn’t forget about the date altogether

She won't forget if she's into you. Matter of fact, she will be the one to check up on you to confirm. Trust yourself. As long as you set a time and place, she will not forget. She might no show but trust it won't be because she forgot. And if she doesn't show up, texting or not texting wouldn't have changed shyt.

As far as the balance, it's simple. If she texts you, reply one or two times then say "i gotta go _______. Good night. Looking forward to saturday!" and don't initiate another convo. Don't even text to confirm.

Im supposed to meet this girl today, i told her we'll meet up at such and such at this time and she said cool. I told her that maybe 5days ago. Didnt contact her since. Yesterday she messaged me about some random shyt which i replied to. Then she said see you tomorrow. Most likely wanted to confirm i would be there. Like i said, trust yourself and don't sweat them. Always remember chances are they are even more nervous/unsure than us.

 

[calixprynce]

Long story short she just didn't feel the same about me as I did for her




I'm still in denial everything was going so perfect

nikka you better go listen to some RJ or nip Hussle. Some “nikka don’t act like a biiiiitch” type shyt. Get ya mind right

I was in yo position in March and April . Crying cuz I thought I lost wifey. Took her back and within 3 days my shyt was broken . NEVER TAKE HER BACK MAKE THAT bytch LEARN. But yo chick might be more behaved than my ex, idk.

But in the meantime, my rent just got lowered. Just copped me an I phone X , just about to cop my first Benz tomorrow or Saturday. Just enjoying taking care of me and putting me first. Like Nip said “get that money young nikka!!!!” The bytches come next .

You can let this make you into a HOH soldier or make you fall deeper into simpland and Marvin’s room

 

[momma]

What do yall think of this situation:

My homie is good friends with this girl, who he initially had like a fukkbuddy kind of situation with in the beginning before her boyfriend came back from military or some shyt. They remain friends, until later on she and her mans break up and something romantic starts coming up between her and my friend again. They have a movie date and he apparently tried to touch her several times in a private area. He told me he was just joking around and wasn't seriously trying to make a move in the middle of the theater, that she was smacking his butt when they were walking, and that she told him she wasn't mad about it after the fact just a little uncomfortable and that they even discussed having consensual sex for a later time. Few days later though problems start arising in their relationship from some emotional issues idk, but she wants a break and shyt just goes sour. She felt like he was pushing unhealthy emotions on her or something because he was going through some things, and they had a few back and forths about it where he felt like she unfairly left him

So he shows me a text convo where out of nowhere she tries messaging him, he doesn't respond, she gives the "oh just leave me on read" blah blah blah, and then when he replies she brings up how she felt very uncomfortable from what happened in the theater and didn't want him in her life anymore and threatened to call the police if he didn't leave her alone

So I don't understand if this chick was seriously hurt or if she just wanted to feel right because she didn't bring it up at all until the end

Either way, scary situation

 

[semicko82]

My girl broke up with me

I'll never love again

Any red flags?