Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[African_brehda]

I'm sure I answered this a few days ago


you must not be ready for that truth I spit just yet

I agreed with you breh. Just want to see other options

 

[Ohene]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

ramp up your progressions.
be more flirtatious and sexually suggestive when talking to them.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Perusing Tinder and Bumble this evening and I'm seeing loads of chicks I've slept with popping back on with new profiles.

Yes summer is definitely here.

I actually saw my OG Chinese chick has come out of her self imposed hibernation and was on Bumble. I haven't spoken to her in a while. I've actually dreamt of her a few times this past week and a half. And seeing her profile. I still have strong feelings for her. Partly why we stopped messing with each other early this year. Things were getting intensely heavy. And she got anxiety as she didn't know where she stood with me.

I have a feeling she's going to reach out and ask to see me. I know I'll be tempted to see her. I need closure with her. And man, she's so amazing not just to sleep with but a real potential wifey.

But meeting other women has me in two minds if something did happen with her. We'll see.

So on Monday I was going through my phone clearing out old text conversations with women. Come to a message thread chat from my OG Asian chick. Thought to myself, time to let this chick go and move on for real, so I deleted the message thread with her.

Tuesday evening I'm in the kitchen cooking and my phone beeps. It's her. Answering a question I sent to her a while back. I was like wtf?! but kept it cool. Asked how she was. She said she was doing well. I wished her a good evening thanked her for answering and KIM.

It's like these chicks know just when to crack the door open a bit. Just when you're prepared to move on. I'm not going to chase her, I have a feeling she was seeing what I would do if she messaged. Whether I would over message like last time.

But nah I can wait and see. I have more than enough chicks in my roster that I don't have to chase her down, as much as I would like to see her. (This chick would have me bussin 4 times a night she has an A1 puss)

But If she wants to go out and have some fun then she can hit me up.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I agreed with you breh. Just want to see other options

So on Monday I was going through my phone clearing out old text conversations with women. Come to a message thread chat from my OG Asian chick. Thought to myself, time to let this chick go and move on for real, so I deleted the message thread with her.

Tuesday evening I'm in the kitchen cooking and my phone beeps. It's her. Answering a question I sent to her a while back. I was like wtf?! but kept it cool. Asked how she was. She said she was doing well. I wished her a good evening thanked her for answering and KIM.

It's like these chicks know just when to crack the door open a bit. Just when you're prepared to move on. I'm not going to chase her, I have a feeling she was seeing what I would do if she messaged. Whether I would over message like last time.

But nah I can wait and see. I have more than enough chicks in my roster that I don't have to chase her down, as much as I would like to see her. (This chick would have me bussin 4 times a night she has an A1 puss)

But If she wants to go out and have some fun then she can hit me up.

what that mean breh breh

 

[Json]

So on Monday I was going through my phone clearing out old text conversations with women. Come to a message thread chat from my OG Asian chick. Thought to myself, time to let this chick go and move on for real, so I deleted the message thread with her.

Tuesday evening I'm in the kitchen cooking and my phone beeps. It's her. Answering a question I sent to her a while back. I was like wtf?! but kept it cool. Asked how she was. She said she was doing well. I wished her a good evening thanked her for answering and KIM.

It's like these chicks know just when to crack the door open a bit. Just when you're prepared to move on. I'm not going to chase her, I have a feeling she was seeing what I would do if she messaged. Whether I would over message like last time.

But nah I can wait and see. I have more than enough chicks in my roster that I don't have to chase her down, as much as I would like to see her. (This chick would have me bussin 4 times a night she has an A1 puss)

But If she wants to go out and have some fun then she can hit me up.

You are better than me. That junk would have irked me enough to not even message.

If a chick can't be bothered to leave stuff on a good note with maturity(life happens, just be mature about it), don't bother trying to act like we can just pick up and pretend like children.

 

[VertigoKnight]

what that mean breh breh

She went home for Christmas, which she wasn't looking forward to as her mother keeps asking why she is not wed yet, and was basically setting up lunch introductions with suitable bachelors etc. She faked being sick so she could stay in her room for most of the holiday till she could get back to Vancouver.

I over messaged.

Reading Corey Wayne in the interim I see I fukked up. I needed to be her fun guy as usual not the serious therapist one.

I think she's finished therapy and no longer has to organise massive conferences, and it's summer so she's obviously coming back into herself.

I'm not going to make the same mistake again. If she comes back around.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

At college and was asking two female friends if I should pursue a girl we all work with. No emotional connection to her and just want to fukk

Brehs, they proceeded to ether and shame the fukk out of me

“You aint built like that”
“ Are you desperate ”
“You don’t know how to text girls”
“Why are you so bad with girls”

I thought I was doing ok so I brought up that I had spoken to a few girls in the year and one of them make it clear I didnt even make it to first base with them and they were prolly fukking other nikkas so it don’t count


I thought this was it until one of their BFs came and it turns out it’s his best friends sister

I know this nikka aint gonna keep his mouth shut either

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

She went home for Christmas, which she wasn't looking forward to as her mother keeps asking why she is not wed yet, and was basically setting up lunch introductions with suitable bachelors etc. She faked being sick so she could stay in her room for most of the holiday till she could get back to Vancouver.

I over messaged.

Reading Corey Wayne in the interim I see I fukked up. I needed to be her fun guy as usual not the serious therapist one.

I think she's finished therapy and no longer has to organise massive conferences, and it's summer so she's obviously coming back into herself.

I'm not going to make the same mistake again. If she comes back around.

just move on breh breh


Take it from somebody that's been there

It's better to walk away

You messed up but guess what? There's billions of women on the earth

You can afford to mess up with one

But having this one chic on your mind is only going to destroy you in the long run

 

[Iceson Beckford]

At college and was asking two female friends if I should pursue a girl we all work with. No emotional connection to her and just want to fukk

Brehs, they proceeded to ether and shame the fukk out of me

“You aint built like that”
“ Are you desperate ”
“You don’t know how to text girls”
“Why are you so bad with girls”

I thought I was doing ok so I brought up that I had spoken to a few girls in the year and one of them make it clear I didnt even make it to first base with them and they were prolly fukking other nikkas so it don’t count


I thought this was it until one of their BFs came and it turns out it’s his best friends sister

I know this nikka aint gonna keep his mouth shut either

@neotheflyingone @Hennessypapi help a young breh out

I’m behind most 18-20 year olds on this shyt

 

[The BasedFather]

Man, should I text this broad again? We set up a date this Saturday and I texted her yesterday, but no response. Should I text her again this Friday to see if she's still down?

 

[MaxPain]

@neotheflyingone @Hennessypapi help a young breh out

I’m behind most 18-20 year olds on this shyt

Nah alotta people ur age in the same boat

Hell even older lol

Breh do me a favor

drop those friends

Female friends are useless for the most part. And from what i can tell they arent useful the way i think they are

Secondly, dont ever again in ur life ask female for dating advice. That just shot ur value down in their eyes. U gotta be sure of urself

 

[360dagod]

Brehs, talk to me

Call and go for the date

 

[360dagod]

At college and was asking two female friends if I should pursue a girl we all work with. No emotional connection to her and just want to fukk

Brehs, they proceeded to ether and shame the fukk out of me

“You aint built like that”
“ Are you desperate ”
“You don’t know how to text girls”
“Why are you so bad with girls”

I thought I was doing ok so I brought up that I had spoken to a few girls in the year and one of them make it clear I didnt even make it to first base with them and they were prolly fukking other nikkas so it don’t count


I thought this was it until one of their BFs came and it turns out it’s his best friends sister

I know this nikka aint gonna keep his mouth shut either

U work out?

 

[The BasedFather]

@360dagod @Hennessypapi help a niqqa out

I feel like a fool asking this, but some niqqas told me not too.

Man, should I text this broad again? We set up a date this Saturday and I texted her yesterday, but no response. Should I text her again this Friday to see if she's still down?

 

[MaxPain]

@360dagod @Hennessypapi help a niqqa out

I feel like a fool asking this, but some niqqas told me not too.

NO.

Text or call her on Saturday or Friday afternoon to confirm the date, if that.

For now, wait till she texts u