Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Taharqa

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Ugh, I had recorded some audio of me in her room talking one night and I'm just CRINGING at the shyt I'm saying. fukk, I feel like it's not even me talking. WTF? :mindblown:

Men, just... shut up and let her talk. Holy shyt. I feel like a fukking cornball just realizing this shyt.

Man, from this day forward I'm not allowing these type of L's to happen to me at all. Not wasting time either.
I see relationships / dating as lessons of stuff you do and don't. You may cringe about it now, but I bet you wont do that again.
 

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Yo coli brehs i had made a thread on my current dilemma but i got hit with a bunch of trolling and jokes on me.

Basically, there is this fine ass girl, I Took her out and she was on the phone the whole time.

She wants to go on a second date, and has been texting me.

Of course, I’m replying because I feel like there is still a slight chance for me to pipe.

A lot of brehs in my thread said I need to let her know what I’m tryna do, take a second date at her house, but because of the phone I ain’t really get a proper read on her.

Advice wouldn’t be appreciated

Edit: we both 18 and just graduated hs
 

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Yo coli brehs i had made a thread on my current dilemma but i got hit with a bunch of trolling and jokes on me.

Basically, there is this fine ass girl, I Took her out and she was on the phone the whole time.

She wants to go on a second date, and has been texting me.

Of course, I’m replying because I feel like there is still a slight chance for me to pipe.

A lot of brehs in my thread said I need to let her know what I’m tryna do, take a second date at her house, but because of the phone I ain’t really get a proper read on her.

Advice wouldn’t be appreciated

Edit: we both 18 and just graduated hs
18 makes you a man legally. So as a man, it's up to you to speak up about how you want to spend time with her, not her AND her phone. Tell her the truth and see how she responds. If she acts like the victim, you dodged a bullet. If she apologizes and is down, do your thing.
 

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i dont think im ready for a relationship again, tried a 2nd time with my on and off shawty and shyt blew up in my face, apparently i lack empathy
 

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So I've been talking to this girl. I've known her for a while, she knows my family and vice versa, never talked to her really because she always had a boyfriend. She broke up with the bf last year, started talking to her a couple months ago, we hit it off, smash, hang out, kissing, texting all day and shyt, it seems like she finna be my girl but then she hits the :hubie: and says she not tryna rush into a relationship. I understand, she was with the same nikka from 19-25. Everything seems cool though, but last week I was tryna hang and she was just playing me with bs answers idk, we'll see. I asked if she still like me she says yeah, shyt goes back to normal. I try to hang with her again on Friday, she says maybe, then when I ask later it's idk. I knew she wasn't fukking with me and said it, she says I guess.



That shyt pissed me off, I send my last text "weak as fukk. Girl bye." With the:camby: gif, and she sends me a "bye Felicia" gif.



This the longest we haven't talked since we started taking and I really like this broad, but I can't hit her back, can I? :mjcry: it's over, huh?
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It always comes back around
 

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Yeah we share family :whoa: but the type that you're not actually related to. My sister graduates Friday and they're throwing her a party after. She'll likely be there.
 

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Question, if when asking for a womans number and she says "im funny about giving out my number, I have to get to know you a little more" do you take it at face value or just chalk it up to the game and keep it moving?
 

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Question, if when asking for a womans number and she says "im funny about giving out my number, I have to get to know you a little more" do you take it at face value or just chalk it up to the game and keep it moving?


If a woman is truly interested in you, she'll be happy to give you her number. If she says anything otherwise, she's trying to put you on a leash so you can jump when she says jump. Don't fall for that, take the L and keep it pushing.
 
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