Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Smash and move on to the next woman. Don't invest your emotion into her because she was looking for a quick nut and has no intention to build a relationship with you.

Naw man I wouldn’t even do that. If she has a man just leave her alone. Too many dudes die behind stuff like this.
 

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Another thing I learned is if you can accept that a chick you pursuing or trying to holler at is already fukking around, You could psychologically function in the game.

Prime example. Theres a cute chick at my job and this young bull stayed pursuing her and sweating her. She has that real innocent, shy, quiet type of vibe but when he found out that another nikkah was already hitting it for the past month, He was sad as a muthafukka.

Like men has this illusion that alot of these single women are at home all day, on their phone, watching tv, cooking and never going out. NAH nikkah.. She out there taking dyck left and right. Especially if she's a dime or she's very attractive. You have to assume that so you wont be sidetracked or emotionally invest subconsciously.
Don't allow this post go over your heads, breh.
 

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Used my mouthpiece to chat up a girl last night at a bar. 5'9" PAWG that's a principal at a school. She was looking right in that sundress :takedat:

I sort of felt like a dikk because a female friend cane out to see me and this woman totally distracted me from my group but she'll get over it. :ehh:
 

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Question: You're visiting a lady for the weekend in another city. Do you get a hotel room or take up the lady's offer to let you stay at her place?

Let me give you some context;

I got this friend (let's call her Ashley) that I've been talking to for the longest. We've gone out a couple times when she used to live in the DC area. Went to see "Get Out", taken her to a Halloween party etc.

Never brought it home because she stayed with her sister and our (Ashely and me) schedules' couldn't link.

FFWD to the present. She's moved to ATL for law school.

So we're on facetime last night and she mentions she's not gonna be coming up to DC anymore but I should definitely make the trip down.

I told her that's cool. I asked what were some of the closest hotels to her. She then mentioned I'd be welcome to just stay at her apartment so I can save money on the hotel since I'd still need to cop a rental for the weekend.

Saving $200+ on a room is nice but I do think having a hotel room changes the dynamic a bit. I'm a bit more independent and not tied down her. I can also peruse ATL myself and try other ladies. I do have some cousins in the A. However, if not for her invitation I wouldn't have done ATL. Would have just chilled till end of summer for my trip to London.

Coli's thoughts?
 

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Question: You're visiting a lady for the weekend in another city. Do you get a hotel room or take up the lady's offer to let you stay at her place?

Let me give you some context;

I got this friend (let's call her Ashley) that I've been talking to for the longest. We've gone out a couple times when she used to live in the DC area. Went to see "Get Out", taken her to a Halloween party etc.

Never brought it home because she stayed with her sister and our (Ashely and me) schedules' couldn't link.

FFWD to the present. She's moved to ATL for law school.

So we're on facetime last night and she mentions she's not gonna be coming up to DC anymore but I should definitely make the trip down.

I told her that's cool. I asked what were some of the closest hotels to her. She then mentioned I'd be welcome to just stay at her apartment so I can save money on the hotel since I'd still need to cop a rental for the weekend.

Saving $200+ on a room is nice but I do think having a hotel room changes the dynamic a bit. I'm a bit more independent and not tied down her. I can also peruse ATL myself and try other ladies. I do have some cousins in the A. However, if not for her invitation I wouldn't have done ATL. Would have just chilled till end of summer for my trip to London.

Coli's thoughts?

Id rather have my own..

You gotta play by her possible rules if you crash in with her
 

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Question: You're visiting a lady for the weekend in another city. Do you get a hotel room or take up the lady's offer to let you stay at her place?

Let me give you some context;

I got this friend (let's call her Ashley) that I've been talking to for the longest. We've gone out a couple times when she used to live in the DC area. Went to see "Get Out", taken her to a Halloween party etc.

Never brought it home because she stayed with her sister and our (Ashely and me) schedules' couldn't link.

FFWD to the present. She's moved to ATL for law school.

So we're on facetime last night and she mentions she's not gonna be coming up to DC anymore but I should definitely make the trip down.

I told her that's cool. I asked what were some of the closest hotels to her. She then mentioned I'd be welcome to just stay at her apartment so I can save money on the hotel since I'd still need to cop a rental for the weekend.

Saving $200+ on a room is nice but I do think having a hotel room changes the dynamic a bit. I'm a bit more independent and not tied down her. I can also peruse ATL myself and try other ladies. I do have some cousins in the A. However, if not for her invitation I wouldn't have done ATL. Would have just chilled till end of summer for my trip to London.

Coli's thoughts?
You are not going to live with her in the ATL. It's just a weekend; therefore, staying with your friend is the right choice to save money. This is a great opportunity for you to see how she lives her life in her own place and will give you a greater chance to cultivate your relationship to the next level if that's what you are seeking from the young lady. Take your chance and have fun with your friend. Checkout Groupon or other discounts that you can use for fun activities.
 
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Been talkin to this girl for a couple of months, been vibing & getting along, met her 2 times for lunch. Just today she told me she had feelings for me but said i needed to know something before we take things further...

Revealed to me when her ex cheated on her, he gave her herpes...

Yeah, I’m good.
:francis:
 

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man i was talking with thi chick and she called me like 3 times in a row i didn't feel like tlaking so i blocked her on whatsapp

10 min later another phone number messages me how i noticed you blocked me on whatsapp sorry for bothering you

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Been talkin to this girl for a couple of months, been vibing & getting along, met her 2 times for lunch. Just today she told me she had feelings for me but said i needed to know something before we take things further...

Revealed to me when her ex cheated on her, he gave her herpes...

Yeah, I’m good.
:francis:

dont blame you breh dont be a simp

i was talking to this chick recently and she opened up how she used to sleep with men for money to put her through college

blocked her and haven't spoken to her since.

those former simp remnants will have you feeling sorry and ish
 
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