PAUSE!!! Body types women find attractive

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I hope people aren't still believing that lie that women don't care about looks. But also hope people aren't believing that women care only about looks either. You gotta be her type and the only way to know that is to talk to her :yeshrug:
Attractive women who can pick and choose who they fukk care about looks. Even if you’re “her type,” that would mean she finds you attractive
 

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Attractive women who can pick and choose who they fukk care about looks. Even if you’re “her type,” that would mean she finds you attractive
Bro what are you refuting in my post? You can be physically attractive to her but not her type. 10/10 times she will pick a man who is equally physically attractive or even slightly less so if he is her type. And that comes down to your personality, interests, and little idiosyncratic traits she prefers
 
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you don't know what you are talking about. Unless you've been there you won't know.

Being swole is night and day. You can be handsome and tall but once you add muscle to the mix women look at you on a whole different level.

And if you are an ugly dude with a nice body you are still better than an ugly dude with an average or below average body.

And swole ugly nikkas get lusted after too. Just like ugly chicks with bangin' bodies.

I am speaking from experience.
Im 6'2" around 12% bodyfat at 220 pounds and people comment on me being swole on a regular basis.

It's never translated into real interest or choosing signals in women. Its been many times I noticed women eyeing me from behind or from distance then they see my face and get visibly turned off
 

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I don't necessarily hate him. I just hate his "body game" bullshyt.

I know firsthand that women don't give a fukk about body. Don't get me wrong, a good body is obviously a plus, but it will never be more important than face.

I've seen too many women pick skinnyfat prettyboys over brolic gym nikkas. Hell, I've lost a woman to a chubby guy who girls thought was "cute".

Rom Wills is a bit better than other dating coaches since he understands that women want guys they find attractive. We just disagree about WHAT they find attractive. He likes to cite studies that support his body game shyt but he ignores all of the studies about FACE. I also hate his anecdotes about seeing ugly guys with bad women and then in the next video contradicts himself by saying men can't accurately gauge the looks of other men.

Seeing one guy you deem ugly with a woman does not mean he's having casual sex regularly.

Because that's where looks matter the most -- casual sex.

Personally, I think he's projecting his attraction to muscles onto women.

The best thing the gym can do is make your face look better. Especially if you have a chubby one or fat one. A better and more chiseled face yields much better results than bigger arms, chest and six pack.
 

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How and why do you brehs look at this bullshyt none of it matters...Just shoot your shot. None of this stuff matters be confident and on your stuff. No one wants to be around depressed ass lames.
 

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Bro what are you refuting in my post? You can be physically attractive to her but not her type. 10/10 times she will pick am an who is equally physically attractive or even slightly less so if he is her type. And that comes down to your personality, interests, and little idiosyncratic traits she prefers
My bad, I thought you said the opposite of what you actually said :ohhh:
 

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Looks aren’t as important to women as y’all think.

Men that look good in clothes, are well groomed, know how to dress to compliment their body type, smell good (good cologne), and have swagger are not ugly to most women regardless of what their facial features look like. If a man is tall and has thick facial hair it’s almost cheat code.

Being in shape will obviously enhance what you have, but you don’t have to walk around with 12 percent body fat, washboard abs, and a v-taper to get women. As long as you aren’t some slob and look good in clothes you’ll be fine.

I’ve watched men pull women just off swagger and the way they carried themselves while pretty boys were somewhere in the corner wondering why they didn’t get chose.

Your looks will get you noticed a little faster, but it’s your attitude, masculinity, and swagger that get the woman. Women typically look at more than just physical looks when deciding on a man they’re going to deal with.

You can be a handsome breh and still be thirsty, a simp, pushover, or a man she thinks she can run over. Women despise that energy and don’t respect that and they will either friend zone you, use you, or dismiss you all together.
 
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Being in shape has a night and day difference on how women treat you. If you ain't never been swole or cut up, you have no say so in the matter.

I'm only 5'8 and when I'm in the gym consistently, I clean up. Women ain't no different than men when they see a dude with a nice set of biceps and a good chest/waist ratio. They too will be looking at you like

Raw :takedat:
 

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No offense to you personally but when people say it gets better in you 30s they're effectively confirming your a less than/second choice/clean up. At this point with how sexually active women are, and how early they start, droves of 27-28+ year old women wanting you doesn't mean much with all the mileage physically, emotionally and mentally they've been through.

To use a metaphor either you can afford to buy a car brand new, because you got it like that or you can wait 3-5 years to get the same car used at a much lower cost. Despite the fact that it's the same car. Getting the 2021 model in 2021 isn't the same as 2021 model in 2026. Moreover driving a 2021 model at 22 years old in 2021 isn't the same as driving a 2021 model in 2021 at 35 years old.

The when you get older is often found/argued in concert with the when you get bread/situated paradigm. The problem with both is the women are drawn by circumstance/situation not you the individual, idiosyncrasies and all.

At a certain point if you 30+, in shape, and stacked bread it's a DMX situation "Of she gave up the ass dawg she was supposed to"

For me that's cool in terms of increasing the ease of access to casual sex, but I'd only see discerning a quality woman to be more difficult if you're checking most women's boxes. If the endgame is sex have at it but neither paradigm seems to guarantee a quality yield in terms of longer term partners

Just my 2 cents

I wasn't speaking on when the dating game gets "easier" in our 30s vs 20s, just that for women hitting late 20s/early 30s the heartthrob face isn't the end all be all and a man's body gains some important likely because as we age it's a symbol of discipline, capability, and a rarity.

The bolded is all I care about to be honest, I'm not trying to be Pop-Pop in the club but I don't want marriage so as I level up I'm prepared to serial date and part ways with women when they realize the pressure won't work and possibly end life alone, checking off the superficial boxes will facilitate that. The planned vasectomy in a couple years will make the cypher complete.
 

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Looks aren’t as important to women as y’all think.

Men that look good in clothes, are well groomed, know how to dress to compliment their body type, smell good (good cologne), and have swagger are not ugly to most women regardless of what their facial features look like. If a man is tall and has thick facial hair it’s almost cheat code.

Being in shape will obviously enhance what you have, but you don’t have to walk around with 12 percent body fat, washboard abs, and a v-taper to get women. As long as you aren’t some slob and look good in clothes you’ll be fine.

I’ve watched men pull women just off swagger and the way they carried themselves while pretty boys were somewhere in the corner wondering why they didn’t get chose.

Your looks will get you noticed a little faster, but it’s your attitude, masculinity, and swagger that get the woman. Women typically look at more than just physical looks when deciding on a man they’re going to deal with.

You can be a handsome breh and still be thirsty, a simp, pushover, or a man she thinks she can run over. Women despise that energy and don’t respect that and they will either friend zone you, use you, or dismiss you all together.
I think the problem most brehs run into and have a hard time overcoming is that you can do and all that and more but not every woman is gonna want you. So they get discouraged when they out here with a 30 or 40% field goal average not realizing that the majority of the other players out here got 10% average. Just gotta find the women that like you. And all this self care and grooming and shyt is just basic shyt to open more opportunities.
 

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I think the problem most brehs run into and have a hard time overcoming is that you can do and all that and more but not every woman is gonna want you. So they get discouraged when they out here with a 30 or 40% field goal average not realizing that the majority of the other players out here got 10% average. Just gotta find the women that like you. And all this self care and grooming and shyt is just basic shyt to open more opportunities.
No man over 21 is disappointed with hitting 40%.
 

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I am speaking from experience.
Im 6'2" around 12% bodyfat at 220 pounds and people comment on me being swole on a regular basis.

It's never translated into real interest or choosing signals in women. Its been many times I noticed women eyeing me from behind or from distance then they see my face and get visibly turned off

Damn breh, do you think you look that ug? Do you have a disfigurement or anything??
 

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Not as much as you’d think

Women care about you having a look.

Vs

Your looks.
All Facts! I’m taking Gerald LeVert or Raekwon type over a muscle gym guy any day. It’s about a look and how you move. Not the muscles and being super handsome looks wise.
 
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