ThatTruth777
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Honestly the entire video has a lot of great information and logic throughout but it was the point he made starting at 01:54:40 or if you really want to get to it 01:55:50 that got stuck in my head because I'm seeing it everywhere now and in retrospect.
Impulsive people are relatively lacking in aims, interest, goals and values that extend beyond the immediate concern of their own lives. They are indeed lacking in essential equipment for the successful modulation and development of impulse or wealth and for resistance to impulse.
Amos Wilson then says:
1. They have no reason to control their impulses, they have no long term goals; they have no interest or values and so forth. So why should they control themselves. Aims and interest as such as these are by their nature relatively stable and continuous. They are basic to the stability and continuity of many exactly because they are long range and extend beyond transient and immediate needs and influences.
2. And so what is the author saying? If you want to make people impulsive and out of control of themselves, rob them of any aims and purposes or long term interest. Tell them they don't have to worry about that, we'll do it for you, just come to work on Monday.
He then rounds it off saying that when reading these types of books to read them backwards as well (placing yourself within the box for analysis instead of looking at it as an observer of the contents in the box) such that they are prescriptions and not descriptions.