Older brehs why don't you believe younger brehs when it comes to dating?

[Neuromancer]

I'm seeing young brehs (YB's)on here complaining about the dating market and Older brehs saying they just ain't trying hard enough ECT. I was talking to my protege and it seems like dating kinda changed a bit. It's different from older eras. So shouldn't we try to listen to YB's? Since it seems a lot of us ain't in the field no more?

 

[Tribal Outkast]

I'm seeing young brehs (YB's)on here complaining about the dating market and Older brehs saying they just ain't trying hard enough ECT. I was talking to my protege and it seems like dating kinda changed a bit. It's different from older eras. So shouldn't we try to listen to YB's? Since it seems a lot of us ain't in the field no more?

I have no advice to add but as an older gentleman, these younger girls are genuinely nice out here. Like I can go to events in Charlotte and sone younger chick will stroke up a conversation with me or something will happen where we end up talking for sone reason. I remember taking pictures at a protest, and two younger college aged girls came up to me and asked me to take pictures of them doing their thing and they would cash app me. They actually did it too. I’d like to know why it’s harder to date out here. Somebody please explain.

 

[Womb Raider]

It depends where you are. For example, I’m in Philly. Most of the women out here have a transactional mindset that the developed from stanning these IG models and OF thots on social media. These young women out here will really demand some money, bills paid or an expensive dinner and play keep away with the p*ssy if you let them. I’ve experienced more receptive women down south, so maybe it’s different down there.

 

[Crude]

The game doesn’t change much only the players in it and maybe the tools to meeting people, but human nature usually plays the same over generations.

A lot of these young brehs were raised on smartphones, tablets, and other devices and they never learned proper social skills or how to operate and handle people without a screen in their face.

Just like any other skill the art of socialization needs to occasionally be practiced and more often practiced if you desire to be good at it. Most of these young brehs don’t know how to read body language, non-verbal cues, or the appropriate behavior when dealing with the opposite sex.

This doesn’t even get into how a lot of these young brehs lack older more seasoned men to look to for guidance in their own families and social circles.

 

[Ol’Otis]

transactional mindset

Damn near the norm nowadays

But everything feels transactional

 

[987654321]

I'm seeing young brehs (YB's)on here complaining about the dating market and Older brehs saying they just ain't trying hard enough ECT. I was talking to my protege and it seems like dating kinda changed a bit. It's different from older eras. So shouldn't we try to listen to YB's? Since it seems a lot of us ain't in the field no more?

Sounds like lil bro needs to try harder.

 

[Billie Jean]

why u got a protege?

 

[Darth Nubian]

Because we fukking these young hoes too. We know ya'll not trying cause we putting in marginal effort and getting on through.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

 

[Strapped]

Yb's are broke & every female is on social media with a warped image of what males should do .

 

[MuzzyP]

Because we fukking these young hoes too. We know ya'll not trying cause we putting in marginal effort and getting on through.

This. I'm being faithful, but the opportunities are there same as they ever were when I happen to be out alone from time to time. When you know how to just relax and talk to women, you realize how young guys overcomplicate things.

I'm referring 100% to real life. Young guys need to learn to ignore anything women say online (and half of it offline)

 

[get these nets]

Im not sure that dudes have hobbies and interests like in past eras.
Modern era, the world comes to you via the internet and content streaming. Before, you left the house, traveled, and interacted with others as you followed that hobby or interest.

The ladies you met along those travels had similar interests, and you'd strike up convos, friendships, hookups, etc

 

[Traveler]

Damn near the norm nowadays

But everything feels transactional

It's always been transactional

 

[Neuromancer]

why u got a protege?

Helping him with his creative writing he's a damn good artist but wants to be a better writer

 

[Neuromancer]

Damn ya'll heartless like that? Ya'll ain't tryna uplift the black youth?