Nuclear Physicist breh gets zero play from brehette. Future disciple of the #Set(PAWG/PAAG/PALG)?

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Give me an example of how you would've handled it
Lol once again If you have to ask just sign up for a match making service. The dude lacks charisma. There's no set of rules or examples to follow. Either he works on building it through trial and error or he copes with not having it. Just don't blame the woman cuz he lacks it
 

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Yea he's not really missing out on too much. It's just sad that her archetype is so prevalent in the community. If he doesn't catch on with some black nerd type of girl, he's probably going to end up with a white or asian girl and that's just more wealth and expertise leaking out of the black community.

You have a dude that is doing well for himself, very intelligent, but doesn't have that much swag, and dude is nearly instantly dismissed, but a guy that makes ak47s out of his hair with a tattooed on beard is garnering much more interest. She is constantly asking this dude about his prison stint. Being an ex convict is simply very attractive to many women in the community, much moreso than being a nuclear physicist, software engineer, accountant, etc.
The communitah is fukked
 

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Y’all more pressed about this than the dude who got rejected. He looked like he wasn’t tripping at all when she passed on him:russ:

To her defense, dude seemed socially awkward so I could see how that would be a red flag for some women
 

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I keep seeing comments that he is boring. That's actually the problem and why BW are loosing when it comes to getting married and relationships. They are judging and choosing men on the wrong criteria. Why are you looking for your partner to entertain you? How has that been working out for them so far?

You should be looking for someone who is successful, smart, has a bright future, a good role model and would make a good husband and father and provider one day. How does being "boring" impact that? How does having swag impact that? Only BW place so much emphasis on superficial things that don't matter in a long term in relationship.

This is just hurt lame nikka nerd babble.

There's a reason why people get on and like to be around certain people more than others.

It's called compatibility.

Getting into a relationship means you are going to be spending a considerable amount of time with another person along with investing time with them, why the hell would a woman want that to be with someone who bore's them and their not compatible with them when they can find someone who doesn't and has everything else she requires including the personality that meets their parameters? :dahell:


Not being boring doesn't mean a woman wants a man with swag or hood element lmao only you lame nikka nerds push that because y'all have the personality of a cardboard box. And even with the type of woman who does want that why do Y'ALL ALWAYS WANT THAT type of woman anyway? y'all are so desperate to be accepted by birds :mjlol:
 

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Y’all more pressed about this than the dude who got rejected. He looked like he wasn’t tripping at all when she passed on him:russ:

To her defense, dude seemed socially awkward so I could see how that would be a red flag for some women

The issue is socially awkward in our community has become anyone that does not come off as street or fast talking.
 
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