“Normalize cutting ppl off who checc up on you when you’re in a bad space”- Facebook debate

[KBtheKey]

Not saying she's right, but I think I get what she's saying. Some people only come around when you're in misery or it can be perceived that you're not important to that person if someone only comes around when you're down.

How is this possible? There are plenty of people who've deleted themselves because nobody seen how they were doing during a rough patch. The biggest thing though is understanding that while it may be a nice refreshing mood/confidence boost, you can't expect people living their own lives to feel obligated to babysit you for any reason.

I have a small close circle and we're all doing our thing, but still barely keep up with each other kuz we got different dailies. That's just something that comes with being an adult.

 

[DaPresident]

“Dear facebook, today I had a cool thought. I wanted everyone else to know what I was thinking as well, so I posted it.”

 

[jadillac]

Stupid sht

If I see you smiling and thriving, I'm gonna be happy for you and KIM.

But if you're posting cryptic posts or sad stuff, I am going to check on you.

Stupid ass ppl act like ppl are obligated to pay attention to them all day, evrry day.

Some of us deal with stuff on our own and don't bytch about nonsensical things

 

[Vandelay]

How is this possible? There are plenty of people who've deleted themselves because nobody seen how they were doing during a rough patch. The biggest thing though is understanding that while it may be a nice refreshing mood/confidence boost, you can't expect people living their own lives to feel obligated to babysit you for any reason.

I have a small close circle and we're all doing our thing, but still barely keep up with each other kuz we got different dailies. That's just something that comes with being an adult.

I'm not saying it's the right line of thinking. People are busy, I get it. I'm just saying how it can be perceived case to case.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Can we normalize checking mothafukkas for saying dumb shyt? If you got people who check on you whether you’re up or down in life, that’s a mothafukkin blessing.

 

[Estarossa]

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