BlvdBrawler
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Not sure if this has made the rounds yet but came across this and had the face on the whole time. A bunch of this is stuff we already knew, but the way it's written here is very succinct and makes a lot more sense than I could explain it.
Read the rest here: http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2012/03/loyal-puy-vs-new-puy.html
TeamLoyalp*ssy is confused and they have a right to be. LP holds him down, puts his happiness first, and at the end of the day through good times and bad times, she’s right there by his side. So why would a man who has no real complaints about his girl still go dip his dikk in the chick down the street who could care less about him after the sex is over? Men cheat because New p*ssy feels awesome. Not good—AWESOME. Physically it’s all comparable, but there is nothing more exciting mentally than having sex with a girl you’ve never experienced. It’s like discovering America, snorting coke, and scoring the winning Super Bowl touchdown all at once. The moment you realize you’re about to smash is better than the actual nut. Cumming is something we can experience anytime we want if the proper amount of lotion is available, we’re not really chasing a nut. You can make love to Loyal p*ssy and have better nuts, but there is no way to recreate the excited anticipation of fukking something new—that’s the dragon we’re chasing.
The argument then becomes if you love someone doesn’t that euphoric feeling of “that’s my soul mate” trump the novelty of New p*ssy bliss? It’s not that cut and dry. Being in love is way more awesome but it’s on a much subtle level. It’s so subtle that most people forget the reason they’re so happy is because they’re in love. For example, a teenage girl will get butterflies to the point where she’s physically shaking around a boy, but once the two are going steady those shakes go away, replaced by a simple smile. She didn’t love him when he was a crush; it was the infatuation that shot her heart rate up. Once it grows into true love those feelings become embedded to the point where she doesn’t consciously notice them. That’s the reality of love; it isn’t constant fireworks like in the movies. There are times you want to squeeze that person as hard as you can and tell them how much you love them, but mostly love remains the silent engine under the hood that drives the relationship. The only time most people pop that hood and acknowledge the true extent of those feelings is on holidays, anniversaries, or when they lose that person. Taking the love you have for someone for granted is common, because we forget how special of a feeling it is. It’s like a mortal asking Superman how it feels to fly, and that nikka shrugging his shoulders like “its aight”. Sex on the other hand is far from subtle; the thought of it literally makes a dikk punch through boxers. That chain reaction keeps it in the front of every man’s mind even when he tries not to think about it. Being horny may not be as powerful as being in love, but it is a lot more noticeable in your every day life. If you believe being in love keeps a man’s dikk from getting rock hard at the thought of another sexy ass woman, then you’re dumber than those ratchet twins on Bad Girls Club. Attraction is out of our control. The only thing a man can control is what he does with that erection. And that decision alone is what separates men who cheat from those who don’t.
Read the rest here: http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2012/03/loyal-puy-vs-new-puy.html