Basil of Baker Street
Banned
I don't know what to do. I'm too far deep. We've been together for almost 3 years now.
1. I told her I make six figs and I'm in a leadership role. Not true.
2. I told her I have all types of investments and residual income. Not true.
3. I told her I have a retirement plan in place that will have me retired by 50. Not even close.
4. I told her I have close friends...not true. This is probably the main one that will screw me...she's wanting a wedding where there's like best man and groomsmen and stuff but I have absolutely no one to fill those roles.
5. I lied about my body count.
6. I lied about pretty much all of my previous relationships.
7. I lied about never cheating. I have. Including cheating on her.
8. I lied about being a Christian. I really could not give a shyt and actually prefer not to go to church ever.
These are probably the main things I've lied about. I feel very soon or when we start cracking down and getting serious with the marriage planning she's gonna find out I'm a huge fraud, Money ain't as Poppin and I'll probably have no one show up to the wedding on my side.
I need an honest opinion what I should do.
I also need the opinion of a woman. Now there are some things like the body count, past relationships, cheating that will follow me to the grave but the other stuff like how much I make, not giving a flying shyt about god, the no close friend thing...is that a deal breaker ladies if you found out your man lied about those things?
1. I told her I make six figs and I'm in a leadership role. Not true.
2. I told her I have all types of investments and residual income. Not true.
3. I told her I have a retirement plan in place that will have me retired by 50. Not even close.
4. I told her I have close friends...not true. This is probably the main one that will screw me...she's wanting a wedding where there's like best man and groomsmen and stuff but I have absolutely no one to fill those roles.
5. I lied about my body count.
6. I lied about pretty much all of my previous relationships.
7. I lied about never cheating. I have. Including cheating on her.
8. I lied about being a Christian. I really could not give a shyt and actually prefer not to go to church ever.
These are probably the main things I've lied about. I feel very soon or when we start cracking down and getting serious with the marriage planning she's gonna find out I'm a huge fraud, Money ain't as Poppin and I'll probably have no one show up to the wedding on my side.
I need an honest opinion what I should do.
I also need the opinion of a woman. Now there are some things like the body count, past relationships, cheating that will follow me to the grave but the other stuff like how much I make, not giving a flying shyt about god, the no close friend thing...is that a deal breaker ladies if you found out your man lied about those things?
Because he's an out the closet homo who doesn't even like women and why the f is he asking for advice in a forum, when he damn well knows that his downlow ass would prefer to get advice by DM hopping in other men's inboxes.
and it's just Wednesday 
