Well I can only speak from my experiences.I am a sex worker and I dont see black men.
Working in different areas of customer service I quickly learned doing business with black men sucks. In HS When I was a hostess at a restaurant, all the servers used to suck their teeth and groan when they were sat in their section. They dont tip. Which wouldnt be a problem if they didnt try and work you to death. "Let me get some ice water, lemons, and some packets of sugar" "how much does it cost to ___?" ".75??!! thats too high nevermind" "omg these drinks are $12.00?!
" "get me some more crayons" "I need more silverware" " i need a refill" Yelling at you from across the restaurant. UGH
Then I started out stripping at Magic City. The dudes want you to break your neck or die a premature death from all the silicone in your ass before they break bread.
They wanna get your number. They want you to agree to fukk them when you get off before they dance you. They wanna smack you on the ass. I lost patience for that shyt and went to Cheetah. They dont even have poles. All I had to do was get up there and sway my hips and wink and I would have a garter full of money. Then when I got off stage I would get whisked into VIP by some white man to talk and drink. They werent threatened or turned off by my intellect in fact they LOVED it. They didnt mind that I talk white in fact they said it made them feel more comfortable around me.
When I escroted I had to stop seeing black men because
they whine too much. They wanna haggle you down. They want to go over their session. They book 1 hour and try to nut 5 times. In that other thread the black men were appalled that I would charge $400/hr for a man to stick his penis inside me. Telling me a darskin girl is crazy to charge that much. I dont have these problems with white men. They like you they will reach right over into that wallet and pay you your rate, and bring you gifts, and tip you sometimes more than the tab was.
When I was a newbie in the sex industry I would meet white escorts who had the no black men allowed thing in their ads. It really pissed me off at first. One day I asked one of them why they felt that way and she gave me all the reasons listed above plus a couple more. I was ready to fight her but she just laughed and told me to come back in a month and see if I felt the same. Sure enough a few weeks later I was talking to her again and I was like OMG you were absoloutley right about black men!! She just laughed and was like I told you so..
Black men are cheap tightwads who want you to bend over backwards for their every whim while giving as little as possible in return.