It's been about a decade but in my former life, I used to host anti-domestic violence groups with felons and DV offenders.... whole lotta Charleston White type muhfukkas. This one breh-- I swear on anything or may God strike me dead-- He was a double amputee on the legs. And he had these prosthetic legs with Ed Hardy designs all over them
And HE was in the group.
I forgot most of that shyt but there was a "Wheel of Accountability" and a triad I can't remember. This thought process falls under "Blame"
"Look what you made me do"/"I only do it cause I love you"
Etc