Update: AIO I (25f) think my (33m) boyfriend is lying to me and is gay with his best friend. We are set to get married soon.
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Wow. I’ll start with that. I didn’t say anything when they were together… I was full of anxiety and all in my head and I just couldn’t do it. I brought it up this morning before he left for work. I said something to the nature of “I looked at your phone and I would love to know why you two are sexting with eachother…I’m not comfortable with it and we need to talk about this. Are you gay ooorrrr?”
He literally burst out laughing as I’m tearing up asking this. He says this is all a big joke. He says that this whole thing started because they were making fun of homophobes and people who are insecure with their sexuality and it went from jokes to full on dikk pics… he said they talk about how it’s so funny that seeing a dikk makes you gay or people find it gross when in fact it’s no different than a picture of an ear or hand… its a big inside joke because “straight men are not supposed to act like this and people who think that makes you gay or weird are just insecure and childish” he says that it started with just sending pictures of dikks from the internet and eventually led to them sending their own because of the shock value.
I literally DO NOT know what to think about this. I told him to stop it now and he said he would respect that and not do it anymore but also said I need to chill and doesn’t like that I looked at his phone… ugh. I did see him start talking on his phone as he was leaving the driveway probably bytching about me…
