Married brehs, how did you break the news to your side chicks?

[DreadHead P]

Did you just cut all connections?
Did you sit them down and tell them your settling down so what yall have has to end?
Did you just change your number and your fb relationship status and let them figure it out?

I'm gettin older and I know my time is gettin closer so I think about this all the time. I'm the type of nikka that doesn't burn bridges with females, that been my main problem with new relationships, I can deal with that because I never expect my relationships to be long term so I always hold on to old ones so I can double back if the new one jumps ship. But what am I gonna do when I finally decide to commit to a woman? I been thinkin about this a lot lately because I realized I'm 25 I've never truely put my all into a relationship, I've cheated ( a lot of times wrecklessly) in everyone I've been in, and I want who ever I marry to be the first woman I actually give it all up for. But how do I salvage relationships with females I been dealing with for years? I have 4 different females I been dealing with since my teen years, I keep it real wit all of them and they see me changing females like I change my drawls and that's probably what's keeping hope alive that i'll come back for them one day. These chicks have had my back thru thick and thin, how do I tell them that the love and romance we've shared for years has to end, but I care about them and I still want them in my life?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Break the news?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

just cut all connections...i got off FB and everything...

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

tell them: I know I kept it real all the times, with had fun and we gon remain friends. Imma try this committed relationship thing for a while and let yall know how it go. Might trip, but, Imma try to make it work. If it dont, we can meet up. Though, at the moment, we go stay in contact and be platonic...

 

[JahBuhLun]

Married life is going to leave you unsatisfied, unless you're able to find the qualities of the 4 females you have in your rotation, in one woman. But if you're only 25, there's no point in trying to settle down now, unless you're planning on breaking the news them over a 5 year period. Don't be so quick to rush into a life of monotony.

 

[DreadHead P]

Married life is going to leave you unsatisfied, unless you're able to find the qualities of the 4 females you have in your rotation, in one woman. But if you're only 25, there's no point in trying to settle down now, unless you're planning on breaking the news them over a 5 year period. Don't be so quick to rush into a life of monotony.

I'm really not, but the truth of the matter is gettin ready to move to DC to give it another try with a female I been dealing wit since 07, we moved across country to Seattle together where she grew up in 09, shyt was bumpy, my head wasn't in it, ended up leaving her half way thru 2010 and moving to SC, communication damn near died all the way out until her, her moms, and her 4 sisters all moved to DC, and she started makin trips down here to see me in march. She's a real good chick, no doubt the best choice out of them all, and she's 28 wit no kids, her biological clock is tickin so I see the issue of marriage coming and like I said in the previous post i really do wanna do right by her, then to add one to that I have no logical reason not to other than my fear of commitment and gettin fukked by the foul institution of marriage in the long run. I'm just tryin to be as smart and as realistic about it as possible

 

[HelgaPataki]

i don't think you should be getting married if during your whole relationship you had side chicks. try to go like a year without a side chick, and if you can't make it through that year then that is a sign you shouldn't be pledging to one person for the rest of the years of your life.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

bytch was the maid of honor

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Married life is going to leave you unsatisfied, unless you're able to find the qualities of the 4 females you have in your rotation, in one woman. But if you're only 25, there's no point in trying to settle down now, unless you're planning on breaking the news them over a 5 year period. Don't be so quick to rush into a life of monotony.

you talking sexually?

as far as stuff outside the bedroom...my lady is straight...i show her new things and she shows me new things...

in the bedroom? sure there were women i knew that did certain things better than she does...but she learning and is willing to learn...i have no problem with this at all

 

[thoushallhustle]

bytch was the maid of honor

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

They are called jumpoffs for a reason

Let them know from the beginning

-Either party can end the affair at any given moment..no notice or explanation needed
-Never let em hoes know where u live or work...hotel,motel,holiday inn and backseats
-If u see her in public with another dude..act like u never met her before and vice versa
-No attachment issues..soon as u see her catching feelings..cut her off

But u ho ass niccas are either too insecure or too broke to follow these simple rules to a T