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Which one of yall this is? 
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Boyfriend found pics of me on Backpage
I dont know how to post anonymous yet but I dont know anyone on here anyway so I am already anonymous basically.
I need some advice. I am in my mid 20s and I have been dating someone for 8 months. I really really like him. He's my perfect guy physically and in every other way. He has a lot of ambition and he uplifts me to be a better person in life. It is hard to find that around here. Women outnumber men where I live so when you find a man, you keep him.
Anyway.... here comes the hard part. I was involved in escorting for a short period of time before I met him, like a couple of years. It was all on the up and up and I did it mainly to stack cash and get me from point a to point b. I also did some stripping and some sugar baby stuff, a little fetish modeling, but mostly escorting. Since we started dating I stopped for the most part. There were a couple instances where I started back up because I needed some money for some emergencies. But that's neither here nor there because I am not romantically involved with any of the men I saw and it is strictly professional on both sides.
Back before I met this guy I was sort of open about what I did for a living on social media. We dont have mutual friends so I have been able to keep it a secret. But because I was so open I would post my photoshoot photos online under my stage name (lingerie, some half nude, nothing majorly explicit though). Tbh I loved it, I felt feminine and powerful and in control. I put that all behind me for the most part because it makes dating someone 100 x harder than it needs to be.
Ill cut to the chase. On friday he sent me an email with a screen shot from Backpage of my photos that someone has used to post an ad. He assumes it is me posting the ad because it is me in the photo. I definitely didn't post the ad. People using fake photos are very common in that industry and it has happened to most working girls I know. He wasnt mad but very dry and emotionless just said "Hey I found your pics on Backpage" and that was it. I made a short reply trying to play it off and said someone mustve stolen my pics, Backpage is gross etc, I'm so mad blah blah. But he hasn't replied and hasn't responded to texts all weekend. So now I'm like..... what do I say?
And more then that, why was he searching through backpage? I would like to play this off like I just had some lingerie modeling days in my past but low key I'm mad that he was even in that section of the internet because why else would he have found it?
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Boyfriend found pics of me on Backpage
I dont know how to post anonymous yet but I dont know anyone on here anyway so I am already anonymous basically.
I need some advice. I am in my mid 20s and I have been dating someone for 8 months. I really really like him. He's my perfect guy physically and in every other way. He has a lot of ambition and he uplifts me to be a better person in life. It is hard to find that around here. Women outnumber men where I live so when you find a man, you keep him.
Anyway.... here comes the hard part. I was involved in escorting for a short period of time before I met him, like a couple of years. It was all on the up and up and I did it mainly to stack cash and get me from point a to point b. I also did some stripping and some sugar baby stuff, a little fetish modeling, but mostly escorting. Since we started dating I stopped for the most part. There were a couple instances where I started back up because I needed some money for some emergencies. But that's neither here nor there because I am not romantically involved with any of the men I saw and it is strictly professional on both sides.
Back before I met this guy I was sort of open about what I did for a living on social media. We dont have mutual friends so I have been able to keep it a secret. But because I was so open I would post my photoshoot photos online under my stage name (lingerie, some half nude, nothing majorly explicit though). Tbh I loved it, I felt feminine and powerful and in control. I put that all behind me for the most part because it makes dating someone 100 x harder than it needs to be.
Ill cut to the chase. On friday he sent me an email with a screen shot from Backpage of my photos that someone has used to post an ad. He assumes it is me posting the ad because it is me in the photo. I definitely didn't post the ad. People using fake photos are very common in that industry and it has happened to most working girls I know. He wasnt mad but very dry and emotionless just said "Hey I found your pics on Backpage" and that was it. I made a short reply trying to play it off and said someone mustve stolen my pics, Backpage is gross etc, I'm so mad blah blah. But he hasn't replied and hasn't responded to texts all weekend. So now I'm like..... what do I say?
And more then that, why was he searching through backpage? I would like to play this off like I just had some lingerie modeling days in my past but low key I'm mad that he was even in that section of the internet because why else would he have found it?
