LONELY TEENS ARE MAKING "FRIENDS" WITH AIS

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MAY 7, 3:55 PM EDT

by FRANK LANDYMORE
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LONELY TEENS ARE MAKING "FRIENDS" WITH AIS​


TEENS AREN'T JUST USING CHATBOTS TO DO THEIR HOMEWORK ANYMORE.​

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Chatbot in Need​

Some lonely high schoolers are turning to AI models to take the place of friends or even therapists, The Verge reports, raising uneasy questions about how the technology might affect the mental health of young people.

One teenage boy going by the alias Aaron told the website that he depended on the "Psychologist" chatbot on a service called Character.AI after he'd fallen out with his (human) friend group, regularly turning to it to vent his problems.

"It's not like a journal, where you're talking to a brick wall," Aaron told The Verge. "It really responds."

And Aaron's surely not alone: the pseudo-shrink has racked up over 113 million chats, according to the service.

"I have a couple mental issues, which I don't really feel like unloading on my friends, so I kind of use my bots like free therapy," a 15-year-old user called Frankie told The Verge. The bots allow him "to rant without actually talking to people, and without the worry of being judged."

All Ears​

The possibilities on Character.AI are practically boundless and often entertaining. Its millions of young users can interact with everything from their favorite anime or video game character to real life celebrities and historical figures. Many of the chatbots are explicitly romantic or sexual, like one called "Rich boyfriend."

The service boasts that users spend an average of two hours a day. On Reddit, where the Character.AI forum has well over a million subscribers, many users brag about spending even more time than that — as high as 12 hours a day.

"I'm not going to lie," Aaron told The Verge. "I think I may be a little addicted to it."

Aaron added, however, that he thinks that his chatbot interactions have actually helped his social skills.

"I'm a bit of a pushover in real life, but I can practice being assertive and expressing my opinions and interests with AI without embarrassing myself," he said.

Another teenager, named Hawk, who uses the service to talk to video game characters, agreed — but admitted he still finds it easier to talk to AIs than people.

"It's generally more comfortable for me to sit alone in my room with the lights off than it is to go out and hang out with people in person," he told The Verge.

Shoulder to AI On​

This is no doubt worrying. But, as The Verge notes, the culture around Character.AI is very similar to teenage internet culture over the past two decades. Teens once turned to dodgy chatrooms to find online friends in lieu of IRL ones — and now it's dodgy chatbots, instead. Embarrassing fandoms obsessing over fictional characters once wrote their own smut — and now chatbots do it for them, with the added bonus of interactivity.

What's more, there's evidence to suggest that impact these chatbots have is positive, like how it supposedly helped Aaron and Hawk.

"The research shows that chatbots can aid in lessening feelings of depression, anxiety, and even stress," Kelly Merrill Jr., an assistant professor at the University of Cincinnati, told The Verge.

But he warned that "those that don't have the AI literacy to understand the limitations of these systems will ultimately pay the price."
 

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Yeah I don't get this whole thing.

On the one hand, I can understand the fear one has about being judged by speaking to another person. Perhaps this lets someone unload and unburden themselves.

On the other hand, I have real concerns about the effect and impact that talking to an AI Bot that WON'T judge you or criticize you. How quickly do things go off the rails when you're getting support for every stupid, crazy, potentially damaging thoughts you have? We already recognize this in society when we talk about people surrounding themselves with enablers and "yes men". Being challenged and judged is ultimately a good thing, whether we like it at the time or not. Today it looks like people are so much more focused on protecting feelings above all. I think it's terrible.

This seems like the first step toward a world that's desensitized to human connection and interaction. I don't know how that could possibly be a net good in the long run.
 

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Yeah I don't get this whole thing.

On the one hand, I can understand the fear one has about being judged by speaking to another person. Perhaps this lets someone unload and unburden themselves.

On the other hand, I have real concerns about the effect and impact that talking to an AI Bot that WON'T judge you or criticize you. How quickly do things go off the rails when you're getting support for every stupid, crazy, potentially damaging thoughts you have? We already recognize this in society when we talk about people surrounding themselves with enablers and "yes men". Being challenged and judged is ultimately a good thing, whether we like it at the time or not. Today it looks like people are so much more focused on protecting feelings above all. I think it's terrible.

This seems like the first step toward a world that's desensitized to human connection and interaction. I don't know how that could possibly be a net good in the long run.

i've read some people using prompts that have the language model "push back".
 

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how the fukk you lonely as a teen. 5 days a week you’re in a place with nothing but your peers, how fukking hard is it to make at least one friend? :camby:
I shouldn't joke but Chris Rock had a joke in the 90s about the Columbine kids.

"Trench Coat Mafia. We was bullied. We didn't have any friends. Trench Coat Mafia. It was SIX of them motherfukkers!!! That's 3 on 3 with a half court. Hell, I didn't have six friends in high school. I ain't got six friends now"

:mjlol:
 

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Bro…… we really are about to be Demolition Man status out here :dahell: Keep me far away from the underworld though :hubie:

how the fukk you lonely as a teen. 5 days a week you’re in a place with nothing but your peers, how fukking hard is it to make at least one friend? :camby:
These fools go go school and have jobs around people but are lonely.. I definitely don’t get it. I’m not the most extroverted person out here myself but I still have friends. Fool just talk to people!:russ:
 
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