Ladies would a guy yu know got cheated on stop yu from dating him?

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this guy shows interest in yu no he's a cool guy but yu kno that his ex stayed cheating on him. Does it ever make yu wonder what he was doing wrong for his ex to go else where for sex or love?
 

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Nah, but when I talk to him while we're getting to know each other, I'll find out what I need to know. Hopefully, I'll follow my gut instincts. They're usually right about men.
 

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Dealing with a heart that i didn't break :scust:
 

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My Ex got cheated on, it was the worst he had trust issues one of the reason's we broke up.

Cheating in a person's past, is not a deal breaker for me. Trust issues are.
 
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My Ex got cheated on, it was the worst he had trust issues one of the reason's we broke up.

Cheating in a person's past, is not a deal breaker for me. Trust issues are.

Exactly, I'd be more concerned about trust and esteem issues. I'd also want to know how he handled it and if he's healed from it.

Basically, I don't want to have to pay for the actions of another woman.
 

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No. That doesn't even make any sense to me. Why would you ask that? Has that happened to you?
 

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What? No. Why would you even ask that

Wouldn't even cross my mind to place blame on him. But like the other girls mentioned a potential problem would be regarding any trust issues he may have developed as a result
 

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No.... because if he was that bad then she would have just dumped him....If the person is always paranoid and has trust issues then it's not my cup of tea.
 
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