Ladies, why do we feel we should help our bfs when shyt isn’t guaranteed???

[m0rninggl0ry]

Maybe I’m venting but I left my college bf a month ago because he was acting stupid. Prior, before he graduated I knew someone who worked for this major corporation and could help him. I put the bug in their ear, they knew someone in that region and hired him after he graduated. I was happy for him.

Then all of sudden, he acted funny; he was being sneaky with other women and I called him out, left him and he got mad and blocked me.

Little did he know, it was me who looked out for him.


@BlackPearl The Empress @BrokePhiBroke @GoldCoastSaint @Paradise @Rockstar Mom @Black Barbie @CinnaSlim @Rawtid @Azul @The5thLetter @Voice of Reason @Regine Hunter

 

[Rawtid]

Never tie any emotions to helping someone, do it because you want to and leave it at that. Never expect gratttide. I think it would have been the same outcome if he found a job on his own.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Never tie any emotions to helping someone, do it because you want to and leave it at that. Never expect gratttide. I think it would have been the same outcome if he found a job on his own.

Okay we can close this thread now.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I’m a man

 

[Dwolf]

Maybe I’m venting but I left my college bf a month ago because he was acting stupid. Prior, before he graduated I knew someone who worked for this major corporation and could help him. I put the bug in their ear, they knew someone in that region and hired him after he graduated. I was happy for him.

Then all of sudden, he acted funny; he was being sneaky with other women and I called him out, left him and he got mad and blocked me.

Little did he know, it was me who looked out for him.


@BlackPearl The Empress @BrokePhiBroke @GoldCoastSaint @Paradise @Rockstar Mom @Black Barbie @CinnaSlim @Rawtid @Azul @The5thLetter @Voice of Reason @Regine Hunter

nikka got a little money and tried to play the field

 

[BigMan]

nothing is guaranteed

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I’m a man

I thought you .... wow

 

[MMA]

You're a good woman OP for looking out for him. Just let him be, don't let that piece of shyt destroy or shift who you are

Just don't be nobody floormat, see the signs when a man is on his bs and protect yourself if the time comes

 

[Voice of Reason]

I thought you .... wow

Nah I'm 100% man

 

[Ya?]

@m0rninggl0ry life humbles all one way or another. You moved on...smartest yet hardest move for many women to make due to attachment.

 

[bucks3115]

Never tie any emotions to helping someone, do it because you want to and leave it at that. Never expect gratttide. I think it would have been the same outcome if he found a job on his own.

Realist shyt u ever wrote

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Never tie any emotions to helping someone, do it because you want to and leave it at that. Never expect gratttide. I think it would have been the same outcome if he found a job on his own.

#100

 

[mr.africa]

is shyt EVER guaranteed in any aspect of life?
edit:
just realized that the question was posed to the female members of the coli
my bad.
out!!

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Yeah he was gonna act funny anyways. I've met women who act the same way. Some of yall act differently after you get that first job outta college lol.