Every environment has different standards and requirements for alpha status. The dude that has no issue climbing the corporate ladder and is legit THAT nikka downtown might very well be eaten alive if he had to get on his legal hustle and the reverse is true for the cat that's a beast at working for himself.
If you love the idea of a set schedule, steady paychecks, a white picket fence, day parties with fancy wine and water cooler gossip why the fukk would you be with a hustling mother fukker when you know damn well there's up and downs and Y'all might have to downgrade to a weekly for a while until a drought is over? That hustling cat is not an alpha in your world. Even when he's doing well financially he's still not going to be around to watch Power with you, he's not going to play nice with your friends 9-5 working husbands, he's not going to pick out drapes with you, bytch. So get past all that excitement you feel dealing with those types because it's nothing more than the icing on a misery cake.
If you love freedom, unpredictability, and find the ups and downs of the roller coaster that is self-employment exciting why the fukk are hunting for men during happy hour at the bar down the way from the business sector in your city, you goofy? Why on earth are you trying to change a by the book kind of guy into something he's not and making the both of you miserable in the process? You need to get over having that security blanket because it's useless if you're sleeping on a concrete bed.
Think about what kind of life you want to live and then think of the type of men who excel in that lane and then pursue them. If you choose a different type that's your bad. /psa
If you love the idea of a set schedule, steady paychecks, a white picket fence, day parties with fancy wine and water cooler gossip why the fukk would you be with a hustling mother fukker when you know damn well there's up and downs and Y'all might have to downgrade to a weekly for a while until a drought is over? That hustling cat is not an alpha in your world. Even when he's doing well financially he's still not going to be around to watch Power with you, he's not going to play nice with your friends 9-5 working husbands, he's not going to pick out drapes with you, bytch. So get past all that excitement you feel dealing with those types because it's nothing more than the icing on a misery cake.
If you love freedom, unpredictability, and find the ups and downs of the roller coaster that is self-employment exciting why the fukk are hunting for men during happy hour at the bar down the way from the business sector in your city, you goofy? Why on earth are you trying to change a by the book kind of guy into something he's not and making the both of you miserable in the process? You need to get over having that security blanket because it's useless if you're sleeping on a concrete bed.
Think about what kind of life you want to live and then think of the type of men who excel in that lane and then pursue them. If you choose a different type that's your bad. /psa