Ladies...if a guy is not up to par sexually. Is he gonna share you or would you just cut him loose?

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If the "relationship" was just based on sex, ima cut him loose. But if I really like this guy and am happy, then I'll just settle for the sex and be satisfied in other aspects of our relationship. But usually when you like and connect with someone, the sex is better
 

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If the "relationship" was just based on sex, ima cut him loose. But if I really like this guy and am happy, then I'll just settle for the sex and be satisfied in other aspects of our relationship. But usually when you like and connect with someone, the sex is better


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More than likely he doesn't feel comfortable expressing himself sexual with you.

Thats why you have to know each other and get comfortable.

I really think folks are :duck: when they talk about one nighters being good. The odds of it being terrible sex are extremely high.
 

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More than likely he doesn't feel comfortable expressing himself sexual with you.

Thats why you have to know each other and get comfortable.

I really think folks are :duck: when they talk about one nighters being good. The odds of it being terrible sex are extremely high.


So you're saying that the first few times shouldn't count because you're both feeling each other out?
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More than likely he doesn't feel comfortable expressing himself sexual with you.

Thats why you have to know each other and get comfortable.

I really think folks are :duck: when they talk about one nighters being good. The odds of it being terrible sex are extremely high.
I've had both :ld: The bad one was really bad. I think in general ONS tend to sit on the :yeshrug: 'got the job done' part of the scale than being great or being horrible.
 

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So you're saying that the first few times shouldn't count because you're both feeling each other out?
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I mean its different strokes for different folks, pun intended. But if its not good after a few trial runs don't fret. She may not be comfortable and holding back too so its not all your fault. Sex is a very intimate practice.
 
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no experience on this but my friend just dealt with it
never cheated, never talked to another breh, never shaded them
I was shocked the other day when she told me how small brehs penises were/how weak their strokes were
 

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Sex isn't important. I wouldn't care as long as he had other positive characteristics. I honestly could go the rest of my life without having sex again. I just want to cuddle at night and kiss every now and then lol
 
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