Ladies...I need some understanding...

[prettiij_me]

I'm new here...well new to posting anyways(I lurked for a good minute lol) nd I'm just wondering when all the hate/slander is gonna chill? I'm prepared for the bickering and trash talk bc it helps keep me sharp and I ain't scared of words on a screen, but I joined because I like this site and all this battling is hindering my ability to actually contribute as a member...I can barely scroll through the first page before I have to go back another thread and read somebody...just how long is the initiation process? I'm ready to enjoy this place again...

 

[Blackout]

A few days depending how active you are.

Just ignore the haters and pay attention to those who are mature and youll be fine.

 

[prettiij_me]

A few days depending how active you are.

Just ignore the haters and pay attention to those who are mature and youll be fine.

Thanks I just needed a time frame to work with

 

[EARFQUAKE]

If they want your attention they're going to find a way to make some noise or cause some controversy. Just remain chill on your part and it'll be fine.

 

[prettiij_me]

If they want your attention they're going to find a way to make some noise or cause some controversy. Just remain chill on your part and it'll be fine.

Thank you

 

[Rawtid]

Back n forth only happens if you go back n forth with someone. There are people you may disagree with and that's fine, but if it's gets personal or name calling starts I just ignore that person. I don't have time.

 

[Dwolf]

I'm just wondering when all the hate/slander is gonna chill?

Never
The ignore feature is your friend, use it as you see fit.

 

[VFib]

When I first joined, anyone who was outright disrespectful to me (name calling, etc) automatically got placed on ignore. It's made the site more enjoyable for me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

ionno I don't pay attention to that stuff.

I only go on threads that interest me.

Plus, is that you in your avi? Damn, you got some luscious lips

 

[Malaya]

I think it's unavoidable on this site. Every time I come hear I start to hear the slamming of dominos, trap music, and the smell incense.

 

[prettiij_me]

I think it's unavoidable on this site. Every time I come hear I start to hear the slamming of dominos, trap music, and the smell incense.

lmao I love the visual of this...sounds like summertime in the south

 

[prettiij_me]

ionno I don't pay attention to that stuff.

I only go on threads that interest me.

Plus, is that you in your avi? Damn, you got some luscious lips

yea that's me

 

[Blackout]

I think it's unavoidable on this site. Every time I come hear I start to hear the slamming of dominos, trap music, and the smell incense.

So....about your avi....

What....never mind....

 

[Biscayne]

@prettiij_me you resemble Taraji P Henson. You're a lovely looking young woman.

 

[MsReal]

Back n forth only happens if you go back n forth with someone. There are people you may disagree with and that's fine, but if it's gets personal or name calling starts I just ignore that person. I don't have time.

100% agree

Some people just love spoiling a thread, to call you ****/ strawberry etc. But ignore them.

When I first joined after the "prove your a female thread" the shytty comments started on every thread I commented on. For a while I just stuck to the salon ( which is really cool) then slowly I started venturing out.

Don't let them run you off.