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she's "looking for Companionship only". What does this mean? I'm trying to understand it so i know how to approach the situation.
This woman's tinder profile says "true companionship and i do mean companionship because that's the only thing i'm seeking".

I figured there must be something to it if she's emphasizing. I know i'll have to have that discussion with them eventually but i just wanted to poll you guys.

If you can interpret this in your own words.
 

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i don't think she's looking for one night stands

possibly seeking non-sexual relationship
 

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Not a lady but I know what that means. She's looking for a sugar daddy nikka.
Thus why I asked the LADIES. I know some of you coli bitter-black-men type brehs can't help but misinterpret shyt sometimes.:francis:

And NO. I say this because on her profile she also brags about having her own so don't need a man's money or support. In her own words:
"I’m good over here, drama free, financially stable with my own every so I'm not looking for a handout. Just someone to match my fly with true companionship ..."

We've chatted once and she just got promoted to a Vice President role at the company where she works. Turns out...I interviewed there 2 years ago in their Engineering team. She actually knows the 3 people that interviewed me and was there that day I interviewed ( at the end of the interview a fire alarm went off a d building had to be evacuated so she remembers that day). Small world
 

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Thus why I asked the LADIES. I know some of you coli bitter-black-men type brehs can't help but misinterpret shyt sometimes.:francis:

And NO. I say this because on her profile she also brags about having her own so don't need a man's money or support. In her own words:
"I’m good over here, drama free, financially stable with my own every so I'm not looking for a handout. Just someone to match my fly with true companionship ..."

We've chatted once and she just got promoted to a Vice President role at the company where she works. Turns out...I interviewed there 2 years ago in their Engineering team. She actually knows the 3 people that interviewed me and was there that day I interviewed ( at the end of the interview a fire alarm went off a d building had to be evacuated so she remembers that day). Small world
Sounds like she's looking for her equal and someone with similar values, aka a life partner. Probably financially good with her stuff together but might be a little lonely, hence the emphasis on companionship
 

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Thus why I asked the LADIES. I know some of you coli bitter-black-men type brehs can't help but misinterpret shyt sometimes.:francis:

And NO. I say this because on her profile she also brags about having her own so don't need a man's money or support. In her own words:
"I’m good over here, drama free, financially stable with my own every so I'm not looking for a handout. Just someone to match my fly with true companionship ..."

We've chatted once and she just got promoted to a Vice President role at the company where she works. Turns out...I interviewed there 2 years ago in their Engineering team. She actually knows the 3 people that interviewed me and was there that day I interviewed ( at the end of the interview a fire alarm went off a d building had to be evacuated so she remembers that day). Small world
Negro you adding all this new information now when the OP clearly had a sugar baby/daddy vibe to it :comeon: how were we suppose to interpret that.

Even the first woman poster came in here talking about she wants a non-sexual relationship based on the one line you provided.

But now that you gave more information about her, I'd still stay clear based on her bragging about being an adult and taking care of herself. But IDK that might be your vibe, I've dated women like that here in DC and it was a headache. Good luck and keep us posted on how it turns out.
 

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Thus why I asked the LADIES. I know some of you coli bitter-black-men type brehs can't help but misinterpret shyt sometimes.:francis:

And NO. I say this because on her profile she also brags about having her own so don't need a man's money or support. In her own words:
"I’m good over here, drama free, financially stable with my own every so I'm not looking for a handout. Just someone to match my fly with true companionship ..."

We've chatted once and she just got promoted to a Vice President role at the company where she works. Turns out...I interviewed there 2 years ago in their Engineering team. She actually knows the 3 people that interviewed me and was there that day I interviewed ( at the end of the interview a fire alarm went off a d building had to be evacuated so she remembers that day). Small world


Lmao, they never listen


She is basically saying she's looking for something real and concrete. She wants to get to know you for you and develop a real friendship, etc. She's not looking for money, casual sex or games, etc.
 
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