I accepted that a few months ago as I got older but my dating pool got smaller (cuz I don't date his younger than me)
Have you?
Or are you holding out?
Have you?
Or are you holding out?
ladies have you accepted that you just might be a stepmom?
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CinnaSlim
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I realized that this year or last, when I noticed how many people my age were parents. I never had a problem with it. I was even planning to adopt my ex's sister since his mother is a mess.
I love kids so I have no problem taking on one's who aren't blood.
I love kids so I have no problem taking on one's who aren't blood.
Yea I have & I have accepted it. A guy like @twan83 who has kids that he takes care of 
and I admire that so much. There's also another dude i talked to who had two daughters that reminded me of my sister and myself.
I don't plan to have kids; that's the only way I'll be able to be a mom. I'm open to it.
and I admire that so much. There's also another dude i talked to who had two daughters that reminded me of my sister and myself. I don't plan to have kids; that's the only way I'll be able to be a mom. I'm open to it.
Rather be single than have to deal with someone's children.Hell no.Just, no. My dislike for children is far too strong.
shyt I rather have one of my own if I HAD to choose
shyt I rather have one of my own if I HAD to choose
Terrible to have to choose, but I'd go with that option.
I love kids, but I will not date a man who has kids unless I'm over 35 (maybe 40) and still single. The only exception is if the child's mother is not & will not be around or in the child's (man's) life. That is the only way I could be with a man who has a kid while I'm under the age of 35 (maybe 40).
I do not want to deal with the child's mother, visitation, child support and all of the other things.
I do not want to deal with the child's mother, visitation, child support and all of the other things.
Yeah that was my feeling. And there will always be that connection. Hell reading tlr they shyt on they baby moms but would and do still fukk them occasionally.
At my age, 25, I think it depends on how many kids, how many mothers, his age and definitely the guy. But like I always say, I don't know who my soulmate is. I just hope he ain't got 7 kids with 5 different women.
fukk that, I know he won't
You're young there's still time, but don't wait too long. it seems like every man born before 1985 that is both attractive, and financially stable has a child or 2. I guess i missed out and I want to scream, but we'll seeYeah that was my feeling. And there will always be that connection. Hell reading tlr they shyt on they baby moms but would and do still fukk them occasionally.
At my age, 25, I think it depends on how many kids, how many mothers, his age and definitely the guy. But like I always say, I don't know who my soulmate is. I just hope he ain't got 7 kids with 5 different women.
fukk that, I know he won't
how would you feel knowing half of your mans paycheck is going towards a bitter woman? 
Elle Driver
Veteran
NOPE. HELL NAH.